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Age Gaps
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Replying to wolfs #14222.
If we consider knowledge by blood, or “Blood memory is the thoughts, feelings, and wisdom of the ancestors of one’s own specific culture, totem, or clan,” then the experience and knowledge of the older wiser male would by default carry to the children.Take my family.
I said I would be something different but was drawn to the trades.I just knew how to do some things, not because I was taught, but because it was in the blood I.e even if I had never done something i could figure out how to do so. If I wanted to.
Maternal Grandfather had studied, and got certified in carpentry, auto mechanics, refrigeration, welding etc. also did leather work. there was literally nothing he couldn’t do.
He made his own vehicle disabling anti-theft device, and alarm in the early 1970’s.My Father was the same.
I ended up finding myself drawn to carpentry, have worked as auto machinist, small engine repair, and mechanic without formal training.
Most seemed to just come naturally.
A passion of mine is making buckskin, and own clothes from it. love of which derived from grandfather telling me how it was made, watching him do leather work.
Now, even though, due to my early bad choice in a spouse my son was moved to other side of country, and kept from me yet as side job evenings and weekends he does carpentry and mechanical work because he enjoys it. Love, and knowledge of which could only be said to come from blood knowledge, that is it’s in the genes.
At one time older men were sought out, and they had to prove themselves eligible through experience.
Basically experience of man is carried over.
Ageism; discrimination by age: only came about in approximately last 60 years.
My step dads mother and father were 18 years age difference.
My EX wife’s mother and father were 20 years age difference.Older people I knew growing up were up to 30 years difference in age.
Their ideal was the man went to work and bought land, built a house to show he would/could be a good provider, and protector then he went looking for a wife.
By said time he had 8+ years without a family to prove he could, and would work to provide income, and build a nest egg.With todays ageism where not “supposed” to be more than couple years difference in age is one reason so many relationships fail.
There is no nest egg. Couples fight over money. Man hasn’t proven he can make it through the trials etc.
I got a wife at young age, BUT I had already been working for 7 years, and on my own for 4 years.
Also when times get tough how resourceful is the man?!
The female “biological clock” stuff is highly disproven, fear-mongering garbage. I’ve known women who have had several children in their fifties. My friend’s mum stopped with her fourteenth one in her mid fifties. All healthy and attractive children.
@Danielle, the “wall” or “biological clock” is an all too real phenomenon. It is not fear-mongering but the reality of the world and the genetic code of women in a broad and generalized sense. Of course there are millions of outliers that buck the norm. More personally, I understand why you would want to feel they way you do given your age. I checked your profile. You are a gorgeous, young, physically fit, woman, who will likely have many children hopefully starting soon. Don’t rush it but be aware of the nature of your body working against you. Do not regret what could have been either and only look forward to all the love you’ll feel when you have a family of your own. It will be worth it!
Vaccines cause infertility and nearly every form of mitochondrial dysfunction and modern disease that the developed countries are dealing with, then when those who are suffering from the poison they were sold are infertile, they get to pay $60,000 per kid for IVF.
I am completely in agreement with you here. We’ve been continually sold a bill of goods that not only don’t do what they are marketed to do, but often actively harm the participant to become chemically dependent on big pharma. Your head is definitely in the right place here but be warry of correlating the biological reality with the pharmecutical reality too much. The truth likely lies somewhere in the middle.
Not everyone wants ten children and therefore doesn’t have to start having them with they’re twenty. My uncle had his in his late forties and they’re nearly blindingly-beautiful adults in their mid twenties now. Older parents aren’t necessarily a bad thing, an overwhelming amount of studies show that women in their thirties have healthier-weight, full=term babies and are often in a better financial situation to raise their own children well, as opposed to some dirty, cheap government-subsidized state daycare raising their children while their teenaged parents work double shifts at McDonalds trying to make ends meet.
Two remarks on your paragraph here. Firstly, the sperm of men does not degrade at the same rate as the eggs of women. Men can and have naturally sired children well into their 80s. This reality is reflected in the dating gaps where older men are often dating and siring children with younger women. This, in my view, is not only perfectly ok but should be sought out by young women. A man needs more time to fully master himself and his brain is not fully developed until around 26-30 years of age and thereby has an inferior quality of sperm until after this period. Women on the other hand are fully developed by the age of 18-24 and also their most fertile period of life. Again, there are millions of outliers on both sides of the male/female dichotomy.
Secondly, as I stated up above, because of the fact that your uncle was older when he had children it was a definite benefit to his life. I am in complete agreement with you here.
But as for the romantic side of it, my friend’s parents were thirty years different in age, and they raised several children together. The husband died several decades earlier, and it was hard on them but expected. It’s possible to have a long and happy marriage between two people from different generations, and it is up to personal taste.
Yep! This is not a rarity though it is becoming more so. To each their own. Good luck and I hope my words have given you hope!
@A_Spartan_Speaks
“There is nothing wrong with women having children in their thirties.”
Correct, from the start I’ve been saying, if they continue to wait, they won’t be able to have children at all. Likewise, I’ve been saying at their age, they are now limited in the amount of children they can have.“It’s mgtow-incel bullshit that pushes the lie that women hit the wall and lose all value after age thirty.”
Correct, but I’ve never said that, not once, no one here but you has said that. It’s obvious that despite accusing me of saying and believing that, that you actually believe it. Why else would you be looking for others to justify you wanting to date young women, i.e. 18-25 years old? The only other reason I could see why you would want to date women that young is that you are actually a pervert.
So which are you? A closet mgtow-incel that doesn’t want to date thirty year olds, or a pervert?“It’s mgtow-incel bullshit to accuse guys of being simps if they agree with a woman and accuse guys of being cucks if a guy doesn’t think that women should be treated like crap and blamed for everything.”
No, it’s mgtow-incel bullshit to accuse guys of being simps for agreeing with women under any circumstances.
It’s accurate to call a man a simp if he’s agreeing with a women who very clearly holds self destructive beliefs.
Furthermore, I said being a simp makes you look like a cuck. I haven’t treated her like crap, nor have I blamed her for everything. Quite the opposite, in fact. I have told her something she doesn’t want to hear, but needs to hear. To not do so, to not give a damn if she’s on a self destructive path, is to treat her like crap. Lastly, I have not blamed her for everything, in fact I blamed the jew controlled media for her self destructive beliefs, and the jews for orchestrating our genocide.“You have some growing up to do”
You’re chasing tail three decades younger than you, whilst encouraging self destructive behavior in others, in the hopes that it allows you to get some tail.
Whereas I’m looking for someone to survive the oncoming apocalypses with, spend almost all of my time preparing to survive it, and do everything in my power to ensure my kin are on the path that will ensure their survival.I’m not the immature one here grandpa.
@A_Spartan_Speaks
First off, I’m not a part of MGTOW.
Second off, I don’t want my people to go extinct, which is why I’m here in the first place.I, a 24 year old man, am going to give you, a 53 year old man, some of the best life advice you could ever hear.
STOP SIMPING
It not only makes you look like a cuck, but you’re also encouraging her self destructive beliefs.
@Danielle
There are two people in this world you should never lie to.
The first, is the man who understands the way of things in question. For all you will achieve is insulting him.
The second, is yourself. For just like all lies, it will grow endlessly, until it blocks all view of reality.“The female “biological clock” stuff is highly disproven, fear-mongering garbage. ”
Name one source, I can guarantee you it will be written by a jew.“Bad science forces the masses to believe lies.”
Correct, which is why at every possible turn they are encouraging women to wait to have kids, because they know women will struggle to have children later in life. They know those children are more likely to be born with birth defects. They know the amount of white children in the world will be reduced due to their propaganda. Just like faggotry, just like multiculturalism, just like “free love” being a slut, the propaganda to wait to have children is a form of, and a larger part of an attempt to genocide the white race.
This is clear and obvious, and the fact you can’t see it is the result of you lying to yourself.“Older parents aren’t necessarily a bad thing, an overwhelming amount of studies show that women in their thirties have healthier-weight, full=term babies and are often in a better financial situation to raise their own children well, as opposed to some dirty, cheap government-subsidized state daycare raising their children while their teenaged parents work double shifts at McDonalds trying to make ends meet.”
Post them, again I can guarantee you most of them are written by jews.
Anyone who refuses or can’t take the jab, which is very clearly the beginning of the mark of the beast, will be unable to find employment. Likewise, whites have been being barred from jobs that they are overqualified for, and are being replaced by “diversity hires”, it won’t be long until we’re completely barred from employment simply for being white. With the way things are heading, we won’t even be able to work at McDonalds, so waiting so that you are financially secure is pointless. The only security we will have in the future, is that which we directly make for ourselves.From your profile: “I’ll note that boring profiles here which begin with, ”I’m looking for a traditional partner to start a giant family with…” aren’t at all appealing. Anyone’s priority for marriage should always be to love and be loved. Someone whose mindset is only in looking for a dog for breeding full litters might make an alright dad, but would probably be a total failure of a husband.”
A man that wants a large family with you and only you, is a man that is willing to spend every waking moment of his life dedicated to your survival. He would be not only the ideal father but also the ideal husband. Any man that doesn’t want a family with you, or only wants one or two kids, isn’t dedicated to your survival. Which by extension, means he doesn’t care if the physical embodiment of his love for you, i.e. your descendants, continues to exist after your life.
A man looking for a dog to breed, would convert to a religion that allowed polygamy, get multiple wives, and have twenty or so kids. That’s one of the major reason muslim countries are fucked beyond repair. The men don’t care about their children or wives. Although the same could be said about men in western countries, who choose to have few or no children.
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