Dating tips both on and offline

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  • #10917
    Anonymous
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    I find it hilarious how some women will spend so much money on frivolous things like brand name clothing, getting their nails done, and ordering food (multiple times a week), but refuse to invest in their future by paying for membership on this site. It costs less than a hundred bucks for a woman to get one year of top tier membership. Get on it – pay the fee, send some messages. You can’t just sit around looking pretty. God helps those who help themselves, or how does the saying go?

    #10328
    8bitalchemist
    Participant

    1. The ratio of men to women is WAY off here, like most dating sites. Don’t know precisely how they compare, but the point remains.

    2. You have to have a paid account to reply.

    3. I myself have looked at a lot of women’s profiles, & many haven’t even logged on in months.

    4. Your profile doesn’t include any info on any hobbies/interests you have. The two of you don’t need to share everything, but having at least one thing you can do together is important.

    5. You may very well be attractive, but we can’t tell with the photo you have up, & it is probably inadvisable to upload a full face photo for privacy reasons.

    6. ‘Cute’ can mean a lot of different things according to the context & the person saying it. It could be a genuine compliment telling you that they are interested & find you attractive, or could be a way to butter you up for manipulation.

    7. Yes, some will probably reject you for your height. The one thing I will say about that, though, is that many short women who say they want a 6ft+ man have no idea what that height actually looks like, & are fine with several inches shorter.

    Get introduced into a social circle with some shared values, join a club/organization for something you like doing, make acquaintances with people, observe the women there, ask others about their reputation, go from there. There are no guarantees in this life, but that’s one of the better filtering strategies for the kind of woman you might want to marry. And sure, you can read some of the redpill/PUA/Manosphere stuff the other poster suggested, just bear in mind that much of the advice is geared towards picking up as many women as easily as possible for essentially transactional ‘relationships’. So, maybe not the kind of woman you want to wife up, & maybe not the kind of man you want to turn into to get her.

    At the end of the day, there’s really not a whole lot of ‘fairness’ in the dating arena, so you should probably try to thicken your skin- this could be a long journey, & success isn’t guaranteed.

    #8758
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    You’re lucky – there are many resources out there right now that will put you on the correct path on how to think about inter-gender relationships. Get a copy of The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi, that will start you down the right path. You could read the same material on his blog but the book is a good thing to own. Starting from this book, you will find all the resources you need.

    #8504
    AngloAllegiance
    Participant

    Greetings everyone,

    I have been a relatively long time user here on whitedate, and I can’t seem to actually find too many women willing to give me any replies. I just don’t know what I’m really missing when it comes to finding a decent woman… I don’t think there is anything that I’m “missing” to be an eligible mate. I things going for me right know as I’m studying law (going to be a lawyer), so being well off should be no concerns for a potential partner. As far as looks go, I would say I’m relatively attractive due to being called “cute” (I have no clue what cute means to females on the attractiveness scale) by women plenty of time, but my height might be a turn off to some since I’m short.

    In addition to trying to use this site, I can’t find a woman who willing to be a trad wife offline. A lot of the women I come across are rather selfish, and would rather not have children and are keen on abortions (Abortions are a deal-breaker for me). The question that I have is, where exactly can you find a woman that is wife material? I tried Church but I had no luck because the women are mostly matured or unappealing. It would be a lot better if there was an offline event catering to whites. Maybe some sort of speed dating would be ideal… let me know your thoughts!

    Hope to hear from you soon,

    -Anglo

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