[Anonymous]

I kid need a father and a mother. Nature doesn’t want it that way for nothing, and I mean, thinking of paying some woman you don’t know to have your child. In my opinion, it is not correct. What will you tell your kid when he is older? I pay a woman for you, and if you think about other kids in school, that will be a terrible childhood for him/she. Man, this world is full of women with the right ideology. Please don’t do this shit. Only People who get the child can love the kid for real. You can’t feel the same love as a mother if it’s not yours. Anyone who says otherwise is a hypocrite.

[deckenfarbe]

Your IQ may be high, but it doesn’t mean that your children all come with a similar IQ. I agree that we need lots of high IQ people, but I’m not sure where to find a good wife who would enable this.

[Anonymous]

I would advise that you don’t make the good the enemy of the perfect. Look up you iq and see the odds of reproducing. I have a 95% chance of not reproducing according to my iq. The higher your iq the more we need you genes yet those are the least likely to reproduce in our current system. Better to have one descent parent than to have two lousy liberal woketards.

[Dude]

Perhaps surrogacy as a last resort?

[Administrator]

@Recall: After birth, a surrogate will give the child to its mother and father, who will raise it. The child will never meet or, most likely, not know about the surrogate. It’s a workaround in a modern world that has damaged the health of millions of potential mothers, not only during the Coronoia. Saying that parents who choose this workaround are by default bad parents is illogical. Why shouldn’t we want Whites to use reproductive medicine to improve our demography? Not natural? Keep in mind that a cesarean section, or surgery in general, is not natural. On WhiteChild.Net, we offer donors, surrogates, and parents a place to meet, as well as adoption. 

[Recall]

I’m not into the idea of surrogacy. The idea of paying a woman to deliver a child will will grow up not seeing their mother and intentionally be raised in a non-intact home.

I think most of us would agree that traditional homes and intact families are a good thing, but might not always work out. For example sometimes parents die, kids go live with an uncle. That might just be the way the ball bounces, as sad as it is. But that’s a far cry from surrogacy and creating non-intact homes intentionally.

[Anonymous]

What is everyone’s feeling on surrogacy if you found a white partner who might have issues with blood line or genetics. I have thot about finding a good mother for my children and doing surrogacy.

[deckenfarbe]

As a man, you can have children for a long time. Your clock ticking at half the speed of that of women, who roughly need to be done by the time they hit 40. You can go until you’re 80, in theory. Whether that’s a good thing to do, is a different question.

I am also no longer young, but would very much like to have more children of my own. You are correct that success is measured by the number of your grandchildren, but so far, I wasn’t luck in that regard. I also agree with EastNordid that children need both their mother and their father.

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[EastNordid]

No. Strongly negative. A child needs both its biological mom and dad or else his/her development will be stunted. A child is robbed from his/her mom from birth. There’s a reason why sex, birth and parenthood are naturally linked and any attempt at subduing Nature’s Eternal Laws causes disorder both on an individual as well as societal level.

[Magnerdom]

This is my backup option if by the time I’m 40 I’m still single. I’m 28 turning 29 right now.

[Hunter]

@BasedBoomer I would say go for it, if you can somehow pay an attractive White woman to have your child, as well as pay a wetnurse for several years. Really, this is a missing market, you can easily pay for sex with a visually attractive White women, yet you can’t pay her to have your baby? Why is this the case?

[Aster]

You’re still pretty young at 34, but if your heart is in having a surrogate baby, then it’s not an impossibility. Your heart has to be in it.

Of course, the mom would be more suited to taking care of the newborn. A lot of this might be unexplored terrain, and not commonly discussed. So I would seek out fathers who have done this same thing or something similar and learn from them.

[Anonymous]

Hey man, if your name says anything, based boomer, it says youre past the age of having a tradtional wife n family with kids of your own. Thats important to acknowledge openly. As a future husband and an adoptive father, your best role is in fostering the desire and intent of what you could have chose for yourself if fate had willed it, onto the children of the woman you are to be with. Thinking about getting a surrogate or adoption is more about your wants than the needs of that child. Being a parent means your wants are nothing compared to a childs needs. A healthy child is always born of love. That is what we are all trying to get back to. Our children need a nation where all our children are born of the love of mother by the father and vice versa. Wanting a kid to love and going out and “buying one”, (cause for surrogate or adoption that’s what you would have to do) is not the same child as one from a father and mother.

Forget all that, and find the next best thing, show the children of a white woman with no husband, that love gives second chances. Then they will want traditional families of their own with many children.

You are not successful as a parent by rhe measure of your children. Tou are a successful parent by the measure of your grand children. Now go and find a woman who will one day need grandchildren to hold with one arm while holding your arm in the other. Now stop fucking around and find her.

P.S.
Your time is worth ten times the amount of money you make in the same time when it comes to raising children.

[A_Spartan_Speaks]

I’ve looked into adoption, but it is exceedingly difficult for a single man to adopt a child.

[Leo]

Between you and me, your concerns are certainly valid and mutual, but I would suggest refraining from having children with anyone except someone you have real-world chemistry and compatibility with, who will be physically involved well into the future. There’s something eerie and unnatural about settling for a reproductive alternative wherein a female partner is not necessary in your life, and, down that path, you might eventually fall prey to the idea you never need one. What I can suggest is that you try to expose yourself to formerly unfamiliar areas and causes, be that across America’s many eco-villages and other intentional communities (try visiting them until you find one you’re willing to live at for a while), or by venturing into Europe and stepping into the countryside for an extended duration (take up hobbies, classes, or other activities you might find beneficial, where women are also present). You’d be surprised what all you can find and learn when you go where you never have before, and you might even sense an enormous change in culture, worldview, or even the time/era the further east into Europe you go. Just remember that this world is full of diversity in how people think and behave; you can find someone White who aligns with your circumstances and perspectives almost anywhere in the world, but I doubt you will ever find that woman on a dating app like Tinder or Bumble (not to say you are even using them). I saw a comment the other day, that you can also establish brotherhood with White men here on this platform or beyond, who have sisters, friends, and other connections that could introduce pro-White women into your life – and I agree, that’s another way you could find the love of your life. You might even match with someone different than how you are or prefer them to be today, take your chances, or take on experiences that change you, yet still find healthy common ground to grow together and realize things will ultimately work out for you two. It isn’t realistic to expect someone to check all the boxes on your dream list, but I guarantee you are compatible with some very special women out there. So long as you can maintain peaceful and loving relations with them, and disallow conflict from arising between you, there’s a fair chance you’ll still find success. It may not happen today, this year, or the next, but I promise you that it is worthwhile to secure that lasting connection with someone who will cherish your existence as much as you do theirs.

[Administrator]

Many Whites are in your situation, being demoralized by the limited pro-white dating options and thinking about having a child alone first, then patchwork families later. However, don’t undervalue the expenses of surrogacy; a thorough preparation of the legal background is essential. The burden of raising a newborn is also a significant factor to consider. If you do not have parents, grandparents, or other family and friends around who could help, and you still need to work for money, you will need substantial funds to pay competent private childcare to not be obliged to hand over your child to the (((state institutions))). A three-generation homestead could easily replace the nuclear family unit in terms of allocating tasks from shopping, cooking, washing, diapers, feeding, and playtime, so stay close to your family members, especially the female ones. On WhiteChild.Net, we invite white sperm and egg donors, as well as potential surrogate moms, to find pro-whites trying to build an alternative family structure. Another possibility is to adopt a white child. Sign up on WhiteChild.Net and start networking for free. 

[Based_Boomer]

Hello!

I have done a ton of normie dating in my past with good success in finding people. Sadly it almost always ends because of differences in opinions/worldviews. So I figured I would give this website a honest go in hopes of avoiding those differences. Well… So far I wouldn’t say I avoided that at all which is confusing.

A thought keeps crossing my mind that I should just do surrogates. I am a responsible man and I plan on advancing my career and make even more money. I could also try dating white foreigners and take a break from dating western women. There just is something about American/western women that just doesn’t resonate with me.

What do you think about Surrogates? I hear you can also raise kids in a weird sci-fi labs, for instance a project called EctoLife.

[Author]

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