[Philip Marc]

Been a member on here for a long while now, and for a few months I tried to spark a conversation to date a woman, but no such luck. :/

I honestly want to try and settle down before I hit my 40’s and being single… Well, it’s kinda sad, not gonna lie.

Also tried Tinder a few years ago though I think it required a paid subscription to chat. It didn’t work so deleted my account.

[Anonymous]

hey Ted, you would probably like the forum ruadventures dot com. It stands for Russian Ukrainian Adventures. Right now there is mostly a lot of talk about the ongoing war but it is still a cool place to check out.

Initially I liked Ukraine better than Russia but now would prefer Russia, if I were to go that route. Lots of men on there can give you advice. It’s a good way to get screwed financially though if you marry a “green card girl” and there are apparently a lot of them that might deceive you.

You might consider getting onto VK it is a Russia based site similar to FB but much better as you could find some hotties on there who are local to Seattle and surrounding area such as Kirkland etc.

A lot of Russian women like a guy who is a bit overweight provided he works out and can power lift or otherwise protect them. The women over there love men as opposed to the sad nightmare the USA has become.

VK is a great site and would recommend it above Farce Book by far. Good luck.

[Leo]

Lol, sounds good, @Hunter. Both Bumble and Tinder are Jewish creations, so, from one White man to another, I would recommend not using those apps. Hook up culture, interracial sex, pornographic industry, etc – all that nonsense stems from Jewish influence, intent on disrupting our White nations and collapsing or otherwise destroying our populations, by reducing the desire and capability for family.

Honestly, the best way forward is to focus on the real-world, find who you can connect with in your local community.

WhiteDate.net will always be here as a solid back-up plan, in the chance an ideal woman comes around here looking for you.

[Hunter]

Thanks for the commentary @Leo, I’ll stand by my decision not to bother with Unjected.com then… by the way, I deleted Tinder and Bumble for the last time, bloody useless, except for long-distance entertainment if you’re into that.

[Leo]

@Hunter I can’t recall the specifics anymore, but their website has undergone enormous changes multiple times. I listened to an interview by one of the co-founders, and she explained how they had been betrayed by one of their web developers, or something like that, at one point. They had all data stolen and/or had to reset their website, and it was overhauled at least twice, maybe thrice. I had to keep creating new accounts to participate, and eventually they just ruined the user experience for messaging other women. Eventually, I started to notice the high frequency of fake profiles appearing, and lack of response from anyone. I did manage to talk with one woman, and we spoke over the phone for a couple hours, but she eventually stopped responding to me – and I have no idea why. When I went back to the platform, it just didn’t seem usable and/or they demanded money for necessary features. Like I said, I can’t recall all the specifics, but overall the feeling of disappointment is what’s remained in my mind about Unjected.com, lol.

Yeah, I tend to try out the smallest subscription first with a platform, and thereafter a lifetime subscription – once you find something good, there’s no need to leave it, which is basically only true for WhiteDate and nothing else I’ve ever found, ha.

[Hunter]

@Leo, how is Unjected.com broken?

I never joined since I decided to pay for WhiteDate’s lifetime option instead of a monthly subscription.

[Leo]

My brother and his wife, and my uncle and his wife, all met through Match.com, but I wouldn’t recommend that site due to Jewish influence.

I was on Conscious Singles in the past, and it’s the next best thing compared to WhiteDate, albeit with lots of liberals and vegans.

FarmersOnly seems to have an enormous amount of fake accounts, and while I did see some quality folks on there, I never met any.

I had used MissTravel in my past international travels, but I recall it being an expensive service, and don’t know if it’s active anymore.

Somehow, I managed to connect with at least one unvaxxed woman on Unjected.com, before that website became broken beyond repair, lol.

The best option in this moment would probably still be WhiteDate, as far as I can tell. Most popular options are Jewish and don’t match Whites – at least not northwestern European Whites with blonde or red hair. I used Bumble, Binge, Tinder, etc for 10+ years and would always receive likes from Asians, Blacks, Latinos, or eastern and southern Europeans – but never any from my own kind (northwest European). So, I’ll be relying on WhiteDate.net and the real-world for my dating pool, until securing a partner.

[Hunter]

I like the general advice of ‘do what you want to do in a social setting where attractive single women might be open to interaction’ as opposed to chasing women. However, it also has to be something you truly want to do for it’s own sake, and the requirement of ‘where attractive single women might be open to interaction’ makes the list small indeed. The best I can come up with is: adult dance classes, yet in this city at least, there seem to be very few, and the one I did go to (that had a White instructor) only had one single White woman! Also the chances of meeting a woman that is not GMO (uninjected post-2019) is very small. So I’ll just have to continue to rely on dating sites like this one and https://unjabbed.dating/ and https://www.unveed.com/ and https://app.unjected.com/ although I am loath to pay for yet another dating site will few women. My best (slim) hope, is to find someone through my work… since I have been disappointed with how non-vaxd and pro-White ‘women online’ have been so cold. I had hoped that ‘our women’ would be far warmer given how we are members of a (((hated))) and very small global minority.

[Hunter]

Oh, I forgot you can’t post links without getting ‘moderated.’ Anyway, I will try to comment here on Saturdays from now on simply to socialize with people who at least understand their own biological interests. As a final comment for this week, I’ll add that joining groups that do activities women enjoy is a good option, although you also have to be comfortable doing such activities. If the activity is ‘too feminine’ you might be perceived as gay. Although, I have heard ‘gay game’ is a strategy to get close to women, I myself have never tried it, perhaps I am still too sensitive to rejection despite constantly telling myself to ‘not give a f**k’ My heart is far weaker than my mind.

[Hunter]

@Paul has the most realistic solution, but it’s one that costs significant $ and time. If you can’t find someone at ‘work’ then a ‘social’ vacation is the next best place. The problem there, is limited time, so high stakes (not what comes naturally to me). Also ‘vacation’ in general seems to be a couple’s game from my experience… I haven’t been to an adults-only (unofficial single’s) resort or tour yet though.

@Roerick it is easy enough for people to share pictures via some other communication channel after confirming some interest. Yet it seems that this rarely happens.

[Hunter]

@Ted, generally true. @Tradiman we are all conditioned from birth (and no we are not blank slates) ‘culture’ as we know it is just shared conditioning. Some conditioning is beneficial for an individual (increase in eugenic reproduction and ‘happiness’) or biological grouping (increase in [relative] number and quality), and some is detrimental. As for Eastern European dating… I think that window has largely closed. The primary reason those women were interested was to live a materially wealthy life. Now that the ‘West’ is in radical (((decline))), the appeal is largely lost. Also, all attractive Ukrainian women have already left and realized they can life the high life in the ‘West’ without getting married. @Benito, your recommendation is the most helpful outside of moving to Belarus and hoping WW3 doesn’t occur. Just remember that if you bring a fish out of relatively fresh water and put it in poisoned water, the fish will not be the same fish… I accidentally wrote this replay based on page #1 lol.

[Anonymous]

@bqw32 I have tried to register but it told me that my ip was blocked. Probably due to the fact that i use tor browser… It said to insert my email so they could verify me, but even after I did, I never received a message from them. Are you sure the website and its moderators are still active?

[Anonymous]

A matchmaking service might yield better results than a simple dating site. Did the White Date administrators consider adding a “matchmaking service” feature to this site? Such service, which would be more expensive, could bring extra revenues. It seems to me that a matchmaking feature would solve a couple of problems. Firstly, the kind of people that turn up here tend to be pickier and more perfectionist than most people. We tend to have a very specific idea of what we are seeking, and perhaps rule out too easily those possible matches that don’t perfectly fit our preconceived idea. Secondly, it is my impression that for many people here the fear of getting doxxed gets in the way of sharing pictures, which makes it very unlikely to find a match. With a matchmaking feature to the site, pictures could be shared solely with the administrators so that they could judge whether two persons could be a good match. This could be a way of getting around this problem.

[Anonymous]

@Ralf

Pardon my delay I didn’t click the notify me of response option and just saw this

Thank you for all your thoughts, I will check out the levels video

As far as being high IQ and it being unlikely to find someone irl

Contrasted with, irl may be only option left

Speaking to that.. I’m starting to think that mindset or some sort of energy, shamanic, faith, etc posture, is what will be required to find the needle in the hay stack

Attracting each other over vast distances, subconscious, sympathetic vibration like 2 tuning forks

Like animals migrating insane distances

Has to be something mysterious like that, because its the only thing not thwartable by algos

Granted it could be thwarted by poor health, poor nutrition, otherwise not having access to ones instincts

Possible hack could be taking time to find right place to live that also happens to be a high iq place full of sensitive, well meaning people who perhaps might be liberal but who could grow in comprehension of whats at stake in the world

Its so funny.. like for me, I’m not even that conservative. I enjoy the company and fellowship of conservatives because they’re often more clear minded, but with vast majority of people theres important subject lines not to cross without an invitation, and even then only delicately. Or at least thats one way, another is to be more blunt but do it with some sort of appealing quality like a comedian.

And this all comes into such stark relief when dealing with say, basic anti white stance nor not, or, medical freedom. The disagreements deserve the same sort of finess to navigate, and yet are all the more, jarring perhaps, alarming to see people so deceived and know they think the same about us, conflicting experiences of truth even though there in most instances is an objective reality. Least clear one for me is religion, because strong beliefs create realities in our psyche.

Its weird. Theres multiple womem I’ve known who I really enjoy interacting with and its clearly mutual, and they’re totally opposite end of understanding from me. And it’s like a comically bad mismatch but here we are enjoying each others company intensely, not wanting to leave.

And it stays at that level, the warm flirting level, because I don’t want to enter the damning mine field.

Its quite a strange thing. To so much enjoy people you know would demonize you if they knew you, and to have that glimmer of a thought of “maybe they wouldn’t.”

[Paul]

I would suggest IRL at events. A while back I might have said NRA or GOP since there seem to be fewer KKK chapters around, and again, that’s mostly males, but I noticed that rodeos, concerts, and similar less political events can be good too. Since few of us run around with swastika shirts, so you’ll just have to engage in IRL conversations and see how compatible someone might be. That’s a lot more work than browsing through online profiles, but perhaps a better way to find someone who is 80% there and you can work on the other 20%.

One thing I see on Whitedate is that you can be successful in real life (say you make 20 or 30k a month) and still get shot down all the time (let’s say you have preexisting kids), even though you are young enough and have enough money to be able to start over. I would say that the best way to overcome that gap is to go out there and have fun. Highly anecdotal, but I had more chicks hit on me when boating, driving my Mercedes into town (I live out in the sticks), or on vacations (I tend to get suites, eat at nice restaurants, go to nice bars) than anywhere else, like at work, or at a store.

So meeting women itself isn’t an issue, and just curing loneliness would be easy. But to find someone who is truly redpilled, truly aware, and isn’t just going for money (hard to prove), that seems difficult. It seems to me that a lot of gals are much less political overall. Sure, they’d vote GOP and might even agree that our race is under attack. But ironically the best matches are also the ones who are less vocal about their ideology, less likely to create a profile on a website, less likely to write to you first, less likely to share their innermost thoughts with the world at large.

And this is about establishing true love and faith. I don’t think money is the driving force in our race, and that there is something deeper within us that got us and our race to the top. The key here is not to settle too easily for someone who comes along, to have the patience that it takes to truly vet someone and be sure that they are the right one, in spite of what you might feel for them just from a physical perspective. The right women are probably already there, hiding in plain sight. Not in clubs probably, but not just at conservative events either.

And btw, if you’re already married, one of the best (and most unlikely things that might come to your mind) is to be an active match maker if you know of two single White people who might be a good match. As others have said, we as a race go unmarried and childless way too often due to other races discouraging us from starting families. Too many Whites buy into that, ending up with lifestyles that match the negroes. We need to be very honest here and see that some of these lifestyles are actively driven by colored folks to with the intent to do maximum harm to our race. When we see Whites about to mix with colored folks, it’s our responsibility to say something, and turn the tide. But who many of us truly do that.

So we have way too many White males staying childless, and way too many of our women mixing with other races. This isn’t an online struggle. Support single White men and women in getting together, as well as yourself finding someone. In real life, and in every interaction. If you see someone who is White, and otherwise successful, but drinks too much or is taking drugs because they are depressed, get to know them a bit and encourage them to channel these resources into a marriage and kids. Same at community events, talk to another White guy about a White chick that seems like good marriage material, be a match maker. I think if we did that more often, we too would inevitably also find someone, and together ensure that our race is thriving.

[Anonymous]

@Sonnenbaum

You said many truths when you stressed the need for self-improvement in your post.

During my time of being involved in the “dating realm”, I have seen time and again how people end up being their own worst enemy when it comes to finding a long-term relationship.

And while I have primarily observed this within women, it was certainly not exclusive to them.

In this time I have also encountered many men whose insolence and general abrasive personality would be entirely repulsive to any sincerely kind, caring, feminine woman, if they were to meet one.

However these selfsame men often won’t even consider that they may be part of the problem, but rather do the same thing many modern women do, and arrogantly exclusively blame the opposite sex, while considering themselves faultless.

I think what you said about “being someone who people want to be around” is a very good place to start, and ties in well with the “levels of consciousness” which hoe_math talks about – considering that a truly healthy relationship requires a lot of “thinking ahead” as you need to consider the thoughts and needs of others, which is thus incompatible with an attitude primarily focused on the self.
Here is the link to how_math’s “Levels” if anyone is unfamiliar, I recommend watching it if you haven’t already:
/watch?v=kse87ocS0Uo

That said, I am doubtful as to whether IRL dating would be effective, as I pointed out before…
“if you have a higher IQ, let’s say around official genius level, less than ~2% of the population are in your IQ range (if my maths are right), which means that after taking into consideration those women who are too old/young or already married, you’ll end up with a *very* small amount of women who are suitable, and I’ve never heard a reasonable explanation on how one would possibility go about finding such a needle in a haystack.”

Though, it may truly be one of the few options left, considering the absolute dumpster fire which is modern dating sites…

In any case however, self-improvement is always a worthwhile thing to do – regardless whether it is with someone, or on your own.
Because every time someone improves, a life is made easier and society gets a little bit better.

P.S.
Congratulations on your progress, and I wish you the best for the future. 🫡

[Anonymous]

I met my wife on OKCupid 5 years ago. I agree the site is obscenely liberal now, and has plenty of other flaws. The thing I found appealing was how much one can type in the profile, as well as the giant list of compatibility questions. I had a VERY detailed profile, outlining my beliefs and values (in a way that didn’t get my profile banned). My wife really enjoyed my profile and sent a message.

I think detailed “compatibility questions” are something more dating sites need.

[Anonymous]

I’m on wd more to share info and
cultivate community with the like minded who have some skin in the game to present themselves well.

That being said, I think the best alt for wd is irl.

Be someone people want to be around because you continually do work on yourself and are sincerely happy, you became your own friend.

Then start noticing how people appreciate when you notice them, and gradually over time get to know people.

What I did to improve myself was I started working outdoors, eating meat, taking personal development classes, audio and video journaling while nature walking and reviewing the recording to befriend myself / get to know myself, and making meaningful art that inspires me (I do power carving, drawing, some sculpture, etc,).

I used to really dislike myself, it took a few years to sort through my stuff once I figured out what happened (i literally had intensive sjw undergrad counseling brainwashing in college, plus stuff from my upbringing)

Now I’m slowly getting used to how people are relieved that I acknowledge them, and want to interact.

I don’t lift but I do have an athletic job. I’m not strict with my diet but I do pretty well keeping it clean, gut bacteria including l reuteri for mood, and when I have stuff like hard kombucha or cigar, or ice cream, I keep them high quality and don’t give myself a guilt trip.

And I had a training in psych-k to resolve anxieties, i use it weekly, had my first training in it in 2014. Othes use emotional freedom technique, tapping, or self hypnosis.

Anyway, what I’m saying is that once you start being at peace, truly at peace, you become the prize you were hoping for in a relationship anyway.

I say this as a single, pre abrahamic, animist, guy.

Sincerely unconcerned about finding someone. The right one will come along naturally as a gift from universe or I’ll be single.

I’m not really into a sense of mechanical obligation to find someone and reproduce, it feels too forced.

My 2 cents

[Anonymous]

A good way to meet a person of the opposite sex who might be on the same wavelength as you is to take an in-person language course at your local college or university. Take a German or other Indo-European language course. You’ll be sitting for twelve to thirteen weeks next to women or men who share your interest in this language. That’s a solid way to get to know someone. You’ll also get to learn a language. So, even if you don’t end up meeting the love of your life, you won’t feel like you’re wasting your time.

[Anonymous]

Yea Okcupid is extremely leftist, I don’t suggest doing what I did unless you’re okay with getting banned in a few days. By going full 1488, I answered their questions in the most national socialist way possible and made my beliefs very transparent. She was indeed racist and J Woke, her step father was a nonwhite and that contributed to her redpilling.

[Dude]

@FacingtheSun

OkCupid – didn’t they do some sort of international dating thing? Full of Filipinos and such. Also – what do you mean by “full 1488”? Also – further curiousity. Was this individual you met open to pro white thinking? Its none of my business, but my general observation is that women tend to more readily reject such things. Perhaps due to it going against emotional sensibilities?

@WelshmanNorman

I was thinking, scarcity and adversity in childhood might be necessary to flip on certain genes. I would like to think it is possible to provide artificial scarcity to children in an apparent utopia in order to invoke such genes and formation in children. Perhaps that is an adversity in and of itself – to be willing to place yourself in a cold shower even if you could set the water nice and warm? Anyways, I digress from the topic of this thread.

I would think that given enough time, we could network within our own group to help find partners for one another. However, it seems that that idea might be farther away then would be realistic for myself.

• This reply was modified 1 year, 7 months ago by Dude.

[Anonymous]

This might be outdated information, but in 2020 there was a filter on okcupid that asked you yes/no questions on topics like black lives matter and Trump. I just went full 1488 on everything and I found a girl who matched with my answers. Turned out she was also going to the same church as me and we dated for about half a year. That was the one and only time I had success with someone on the Internet besides from normie dates.

[Adam]

Yea the funny thing about a dating site, is if it works well, you don’t go back/stay and continue to participate in it again/anymore.

@Aster I’d like to see more of your cracked sense of humor.

[Val]

Yeh I like wasplove but noone goes there anymore really

[Anonymous]

@Ted I think the decdence was created. Humans do not do well in luxury. Both the utopia experiment and the state of things today were created conditions.

[Ted]

@WelshmanNorman
There’s nothing incorrect about your last post, but I’m compelled to offer further details. The thing that bothers me about the mouse utopia comparison is the implication that our current situation was naturally arising, simply an unguided calamity caused by excessive decadence brought on by new technologies.

Famously, The Georgia guide stones used to prescribe a population cap of 0.5 Billion. Other rich globalists, in the name of the environment, propose similar numbers. Dr. Richard Day in his 1969 speech, relayed through Dr Lawrence Dunegan’s “The New Order of the Barbarians”, describes the promotion of homosexuality, women in the workforce, widespread contraception and other measures as covert ways to get the population down. Trans, Body Positivity, etc, these things are all “quiet weapons” in a “silent war”. Just as surely as if you put a bullet through someone’s brain stem, you can take them out all the same by making their mom a sex-positive career woman with unrealistic mating expectations before she meets your would-be dad.

A small ruling group want to create stability for the rule of their potentially inept descendants. This will come in the form of a world socialist government. A lower population will require a larger percentage of it rising up in rebellion to overthrow them. Furthermore, a strong society would never let itself be absorbed into a world government in the first place. If you’re running a conspiracy at this scale, it’s to your great benefit to get people to generally reject the idea a massive conspiracy could be going on. It’s in their interest to stigmatize “conspiracy theories”, cry “Occam’s razor” and point to things like mouse utopia to create the impression that society is just dying, and there’s no instigators to counter.

[Anonymous]

@ted the negative birth rates I the west are a sign of a dying society. It reminds me of the mouse utopia experiments.

[Aster]

It was also a self-deprecating joke, if that helps a little.

[Aster]

There’s conscioussingles.com “A dating site for those who value Freedom and Sovereignty” it came up as sponsored in a google.com search

Re: Benito My jokes can be pretty ridiculous. It was a joke about kombucha as a replacement for beer, and it had more layers to it. I was making fun of the troll I was responding to.

[Anonymous]

@Wyndham, it looks like there’s unveed.com, unvaccinated-dating.com, unjabbed.dating, and unjected.com. There might be more. There’s even a Facebook unvaccinated singles group, although I wouldn’t recommend that.

[Anonymous]

Thank you Ted

[Anonymous]

Wow, Ive missed that option. And theres more than one unvaxxed dating app?

[Ted]

@Wyndham

I think a lot of the anti-white activists make age 18 profiles. Also, being super 1488, in a way even racially aware women seldom are. The key thing is the profiles are a product of the imagination of leftists who fear us, trying to imagine what their enemy figures want, so you see general chat threads by female profiles talking about how much they want to make you a sandwich or something, because they have a trope about the oppressive patriarchy commanding women to make sandwiches. Some are more subtle, I’m unsure which profile solicitation resulted in me getting a prank call from one of these guys (I was giving out my number readily).

@Roerick
Thanks for the tip, that’s a good filter.

[Anonymous]

Can I ask about catfishing that you have seen on this platform? Briefly Ive tried other apps also and they all appear to have them annoyingly. Hopefully I can avoid wasting time on bots or catfishers who abuse the site, so Im wondering if theres any pattens to look for?

Cheers

[Anonymous]

To answer the original question of this thread, if you are unvaccinated you can try the dating sites for folks who refused to get the injection. There are lots of based people on these sites.

[Benito]

I saw this as a comment on one of the news sites.
What does anyone think?

We’re being
invaded by an insidious enemy that is literally
a different species: “H. adelphoparasiticus”
Expect to be infiltrated. These primates look
almost like normal people. But their behavior
reveals a different taxonomy. Congenitally,
narcissistic, irrational, and malicious
parasites. They can’t help being what they are
Nor can they hide their true selves. But they
can certainly lie.

[A_Spartan_Speaks]

For me, all dating sites are White Date alternatives as I’ve always made it plain on dating sites that I don’t engage in race mixing nor do I get involved with White women who engage in race mixing.

[Benito]

Try Bulgaria! It’s very cheap at least it was anyways. Another country to check out is Georgia. Georgia you can stay longterm, up to 360 days currently last I read. In Bulgaria you can stay up to 90 days in a 6 month period. The main capital Sofia or 2nd and 3rd largest cities are ideal for meeting women. The longer you invest in meeting a woman in the USA is another year lost.

[RiverRavenFarm]

I’m also not going to explicitly say men who are outside of Europe should, or need to, go to Europe to find a wife… but I won’t argue that it’s becoming increasingly difficult to find white women who recognize and desire traditionally healthy identities and values in their lives and relationships. As a widower from an international relationship (I am American, she was French) it’s also hard for me to easily relate to many American women who have little or no international cultural and language experience… I spent many years in Europe (and the Arab world thanks to the US Army), so perhaps it’s easier for me to travel and contemplate romantic relationships with someone overseas for that reason also. Not sure. A lot of times it really just comes down to our personal willingness to grow, change, travel, and put in the time or effort to find and cultivate a truly healthy relationship. Too many people want a dream but are only willing to work for what they can find at Walmart or the local bar. :-/

@Aster jokes aside, it’s a valid point that Russian and Ukrainian women are flooding into international dating sites. Can you blame them? But men need to be very, very cautious about that because many of them are scammers or bots just looking to make money off foreign simps willing to pay them for photos, unfulfilled promises, and erotic conversations. Mind you, I also feel sad for the legitimate women desperately trying to find a healthy Prince Charming who also lives in a land NOT wartorn but who only encounter creepers, pervs, and trolling mouth breathers lacking social skills who use internet dating sites or chat boards to compensate for their inability to run a 5k, talk to a woman, or control their environment and success in real life.

[RiverRavenFarm]

@Benito absolutely agree with you about the importance of white men who want to be healthy men, leaders, husbands, and fathers to begin by cultivating a healthy lifestyle. The self-discipline of a good diet, regular exercise, continued intellectual growth, and the practice of constructive communication skills is critical. Women, and our entire society, crave and require this in us but have forgotten what it looks like and stopped expecting it from us. We must lead, and lead by example.

[Benito]

Fellas: Go to Europe! You know when a woman on here jokes about poisoning a man on an online furum it’s time to look elsewhere. There are just certain jokes you don’t make and that’s one of them.

[Anonymous]

@Ted

While I think that some of your statements are not necessarily accurate, you did acknowledge the low likelihood of being able to transform such a woman into a traditional one, and since we agree on this main point, I don’t think we need to spend time arguing about the specifics.

@Aster

Depending on how you define “our”, as pro-Europeans certainly aren’t the one’s promoting these anti-natural views right now, I would agree on the matter of culture you spoke of.

Though this doesn’t change that career women are incompatible with a traditional lifestyle as they have spent their lives learning skills which are almost entirely useless for, and developing an attitude which acts like kryptonite towards, a traditional marriage.

Hence, in my view, it remains a wise decision to avoid them like the societal disease that they are, and only consider any of them if they can show clear evidence that they have been thoroughly cured of it before taking matters further.

On the matter of in-person communities I agree as well – as the internet strips people of the negative judgment they would receive from their local community if they behave poorly, thus leaving only their good character to prevent them from doing bad things to others, and…

let’s just say the character of most people isn’t very good.

[Hunter]

@Aster you said, “The internet is an inhuman judgmental place.” I agree. The perception of infinite choice makes most women reject all long-term relationship choices. By amusing contrast, women who don’t tune into ‘internet dating’ can end up with disgusting men. My cousin married an ugly (probably Jewish) guy simply because they worked together as sex-crimes lawyers. This is one case where I’m happy that she is ‘child-free.’ @Benito, most of Europe is under the clay-iron curtain of the EUSSR, and so, in-terms of programming, the women there are no better than the women here. Although, the White women can certainly (in some countries) still be physically more attractive on average. Also, the problem with finding better women in one place (perhaps Georgia) and bringing them back to North America, is that they will likely acculturate to the local culture… and of course, culture here in North America is formed by our mortal enemies.

[Aster]

@Ted
My jokes aren’t cruel 😄, just sometimes, very very extremely rarely, bad. Actually that itself was the joke, or could have been!

[Ted]

@Aster

The childfree movement is a direct expression of what much of our programming indirectly aims at. As described by Tradiman, our culture is cultivated by a comparatively small number of people with an agenda, and that agenda involves radically reducing the gentile population. They usually can’t get away overtly killing or poisoning us, but they can usually get away with molding us to have ideas that interfere with reproduction.

Just about every social message I got from school related in some way to reducing the birth rate:

Be a militant ball-busting feminist who’s never satisfied.
Be a weak emotional “male ally” that needs a mommy-wife.
Gay people are very unlikely to have kids.
Trans people can’t have kids.
Have less kids for the environment.
Fat acceptance and body positivity give people an excuse to become ugly.
Ironically, “sex positivity”, (wantonly having sex with strangers for the fun of it), is also great for lowering the birth rate. With birth control and abortion, this not only doesn’t produce kids, but at least for women, it increases their divorce rates.

The Childfree movement just comes right out and says it.

[Tradiman]

@Aster you mention cult-ure so thought throw in some food for thought:” (the tilling of land, act of preparing the earth for crops,” from Latin cultura “a cultivating, agriculture,” figuratively “care, culture, an honoring,” from past participle stem of colere “to tend, guard; to till, cultivate” (see colony). Meaning “the cultivation or rearing of a crop, act of promoting growth in plants”)

Culture didn’t start being used as we see it today until 1900’s and it was originally used to designate how society had been manipulated and changed/cultured. One cultures bacteria (see my previous comment)

Even in 1913 it still referred to (The act of, or any labor or means employed for, training, disciplining, or refining the moral and intellectual nature of man; as, the culture of the mind.)

https://www.websters1913.com/words/Culture%20

So when one says “our culture” it actually means the group of people who were trained and disciplined by outside influences to think and act a certain way (to perform like a circus animal).

[Tradiman]

I’ve offended people over the years with my honesty. Even lost a job over it. lol
I have to kind of watch when I say something.

I’ll put this out because it applies to finding a wife.

Modern, western, women are victims of menticide/cult programming.
Setting aside all the PC malarkey; women by nature are followers. Even when they think they are being individualist in carreer they are following an ideology implanted by something in their life.

If they are into you They can be helped IF they want Help, but one has to get to their base instincts (for some it is so deep it’s not going to be uncovered) them see they need help.

It can be done, but it can be a long road.
I did it for one person. They now hate what was done to them by society.

A quote from a monster: “We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of…. In almost every act of our daily lives, whether in the sphere of politics or business, in our social conduct or our ethical thinking, we are dominated by the relatively small number of persons…who understand the mental processes and social patterns of the masses. It is they who pull the wires which control the public mind.”
Edward Bernays, Propaganda

If one with good intentions can soften the clay, then provide truth the clay can reform.

Like I said it can be a long road because cult programming can flare up at odd times in the process.

[Aster]

There’s an association with some of these views as not being female-friendly, so it’s harder to win over women.

[Aster]

@Ralf
Our culture has made the views of the women you speak of, for the most part. Many women still would put aside their job for having kids. Going to college has just become the norm, and young adult women, are just following the norm. I certainly didn’t give a second thought to it when I was that young. That’s what success is defined as in our culture, and it also puts off the real world as it’s a continuation of edumacation.

I don’t understand the child-free movement though. It must have something to do with the rise in antinatalist thought.
When it comes to women being choosy with men, I think it would help if we had in-person community. The internet is an inhuman judgmental place.

[Ted]

@Aster:
I like cruel jokes, but points for discipline.

@Ralf:
I agree with your assessment that those who don’t reproduce have failed in an objective and profound way. I agree that a woman who dedicates herself to college and career and thus doesn’t have kids, has failed in the arena of nature. However, jobs can be quit, and often are after pregnancy (and once the maternity leave runs out).

The fit, naturally beautiful, and fashionable woman, seeing herself as higher status, will be less susceptible to ideas that appeal to losers, like body positivity or feminism. Similarly, people with more money tend to be less socialist, and nurses make about as much as engineers. The nursing program at my local college is super competitive, like only the top 5% make it in, so I speculate they’d prefer systems that reward the capable. Such people are hypothetically better primed to overcome their childhood indoctrination, and in the aftermath of having their illusions shattered, reform into good people of purpose. I acknowledge the odds of red pilling any given nurse are small, but according to my hypothesis, the odds would be better than with say, a barista or teacher.

@Benito:
I acknowledge that it was cowardly of me to not tell the blob that she was too fat, and all my cowardice achieved was to protect her delusions. I’ll try to be stronger next time, there’s no downside to being harshly honest if you’ll never see them again.

[Benito]

Just a note but I read at times people are afraid or concerned to express their true thoughts to others. You should stop doing this (with some exceptions). If a woman is fat say that she is fat. If she is hurt it’s a wake up call for her not the man. Candidly stating yourself cuts the crap really quick. Remember weak people cry when you offend them and want someone to intervene to make you pay. This is a very Stalin-like way of thinking. You can see England as an example.
Many Women from the USA and Canada if you do get past the other compatibility issues men find they are damaged and cannot and shouldn’t be married as it’s a very risky thing for the man. He literally can lose his shirt. Please check out Corey Wayne online and get his book it is a life changer!

[Benito]

Every Europid man should be working out, watching what they eat , when they eat and be studying all of the time. This is only my point of view but it’s become very useless trying to find a woman from the U.S.A., or Canada. I do find that many even “conservative” mindsets are delusional in their self worth. Men it’s time to find women from Europe and replace those here with a more realistic outlook on life. Check out Georgia 🇬🇪, you can stay there for 360 days. Armenia is also I nice country to visit. Every day and every hour there is a campaign against us, to out procreate us and simply put they are winning hands down. Can you count how many Europid men you might know that don’t have any children? I can count at least 7 I know, all white, all over 40 and all alone! Some by choice,some simply stopped caring and others know they have no chance. This is why I think every europid man here should be hitting the gym, go keto or carnivore and go to Europe. Let the women here find their perfect man at 50 and married to someone else with children. See you in the old country!

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@Ted

May I ask why you consider female nurses (and/or teachers) to be winners at life?

The way I see it is the biological purpose of a woman being that of a wife and mother, with individual women prioritizing the two differently – with (as I heard) most placing more importance on the latter, while some consider the former the more important of the two.

But a career woman, such as a nurse, excels in neither of them and is thus far removed from fulfilling her purpose.

Not the best analogy, but it is sort of like a man who intended to become an engineer, but then decided to spend all of his time ignoring his studies and playing video games instead.

He may be an excellent gamer by the end of it, but if we are judging his success by his purpose of becoming an engineer, he has been a complete failure.
And similarly, if we judge a woman’s success based on the fulfilment of her biological purpose, then a nurse too is as much of a failure as one can be.

Further, I would say that I agree with Welshman – while I have few hard requirements, a truly traditional woman is a must-have, and I would reject any career woman in a heartbeat.

To be clear, I’m not talking about women who work out of necessity, due to the poor modern economy having made it difficult to support a family on a single man’s income, but rather about those women whose primary focus is their career, and who neglect or even abandon their roles that biology has designed them for.

I’m no homosexual, so I am not interested in marrying a man, whether it be a real one, or a woman who has the mentality of one.

And finally, to add some anecdotal evidence to my argument:
There are two older women whom I’ve known for a very long time, both nurses – one of them is divorced, the other has a husband, but no children.

You can’t fail at life much more than these two.
They may consider themselves to be successful, based on warped modern standards which women tend to have these days, but biology has something else to say about it, and in the end reality always catches up to delusion.

Their genes will not be passed on, and their lives will be but a minor correction of a genetic defect in the grand scheme of things.

[Aster]

There’s going to be a big surplus of Eastern European women sadly due to the Russia-Ukraine war. I was going to make a joke about mail-order Russian husbands, but… it would have been bad.

[Anonymous]

They asked divorce attorneys to name the too professions they see for divorces. Nurses was one of the top three. I prefer women who did not go to college. High IQ can be found in women who did not go to college.

[Ted]

@WelshmanNorman

On eharmony I was approached by a morbidly obese white woman. I didn’t have the heart to tell her she was too fat, so I dropped a racially aware sentence, she got very upset, I defended the sentence, and it got rid of her. One thing that turned me against Eharmony was their BLM banners and they sent an email about signaling your BLM approval on your profile.

Nurse is a high paid profession with competitive entry though. Generally, winners at life are easier to bring around to the truth.

[Anonymous]

I signed up for eharmony and canceled in less than 15 mins. It was a whole mess of she-beasts. It was the worst site I have joined. I tried christian Cafe and even that was better. They still kept my money. To me the eharmony site is the worst date investment you can make. I am not interested in liberal fat tattooed racially ambiguous women. It was all teachers and darn nurses. To me teachers and nurses are nutsy.

[bqw32]

I’ve tried Wasp.love It’s okay but not many active members.

[Ted]

What are some WhiteDate Alternatives?

I got a great date from here years ago, but there’s not that many women, many haven’t logged in for months, and we get catfished by people so crazy they’re set off at the prospect of White people dating.

Elenas Models:
I know someone who got their wife from Elenas Models, a site that pairs Eastern European women with western men. I hear they can visit the US on a 90 day visa, and if you marry in that time, they can get a green card. You’ll probably need to fly to Eastern Europe for the first date, and there’s bound to be a language barrier, but the women are generally attractive, and they come from a more traditional culture.

Swipe left/Right:
A relative of mine got a great wife off one of those phone dating apps where you swipe left or right on a bunch of profile pictures. You can select just the White women, they speak great English, they’re already citizens, but I’m assuming most of them would be freaked out by mere race realism, and were likely raised on poisonous ideas designed to lower the birth rate. Probably low odds to awaken them to our terrible situation.

Conservative:
Trump.dating, DonaldDaters, Righter, Conservatives Only, Patrio, Etc. Republican women probably aren’t as hard to red pill, but they might be enamored with our (((greatest ally))), especially into the Red-Blue dichotomy, proudly sure the good guys won WW2 and the type to smugly declare “Democrats are the real racists”. Still, implicitly White, and already half way across the ideological gap.

E-harmony:
I did E-harmony for a few months. It was expensive, like $500 for 6 months minimum, which I presume keeps out the riff-raff. Got in touch with plenty of profiles, lots of non-whites and liberals, but there are a few conservative women.

Improve White Date?
I wonder about putting up free advertising for WhiteDate, but given my city, I worry that’d bring more unhinged catfishers than mentally healthy women. Maybe it’s worth more harassment if we also get more dates?

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