[Filemazio]

I completely agree with all statements in Leo’s #23542.
I personally think that connecting with each other and raising our white awareness of shared values and virtues before establishing one-to-one relationships with women could also help us to avoid being too isolated as a couple when we form one, since we already have developed the sense for a greater family and sovereignty as people.
Not risking feeling alone in the dark is a very important point to work on, and we can do it only by connecting with eaxh other with all the best (modern and traditional) means.

[Leo]

@Wakstar Congratulations on the new friendship! I, too, have made some great friends around here, that I’m especially thankful for. There are some very intelligent and high-quality people within our pro-White community, and I’m happy for you to also be building up your network. Even if we aren’t yet finding our partners, we’re still growing and learning together, realizing we’re not alone in this cause and awareness – and we’re bound to bump into a potential significant other eventually.

@Sigma I have met 4 people through WhiteDate (3 women and 1 man), none of whom were White-verified until after I met them, and not once did I ever have a video chat or conversation with any of them over the phone – before, during, or after our meetup(s). Only 2 of them ever exchanged phone numbers with me, for text messaging. So, no; just because someone doesn’t talk over the phone, doesn’t mean they’re a fake. There are all kinds of possibilities and truths beyond what you’re imagining.

[Sigma]

Using online as a meeting point…..yes 👍🏻

But if they can’t get on the phone and verify who they are, that is a catfish.

[Wakstar]

@Leo, I agree. Always words of wisdom. I’ve met a new friend through this site and it’s really brightened my world. It would be nice to find romance, but at this stage in life it’s more important to network and start rebuilding the world we envision for future generations. Who knows where that connections might lead.

Good luck in your search gentleman. Be mindful, be patient and the right lady will come along. Hand out some of Leo’s cards to increase the number of females in this community. The more numbers, the greater chance we all have.

[Leo]

It wouldn’t hurt to establish real-world connections with other WhiteDate users either, to ensure we have access to one another without always relying on the Internet (that we may not have access to much longer). Establish new connections and friendships with other WhiteDate users, even if not romantic, and see what value we can each bring into each other’s lives. I’ve personally met 4 people through this website, and I learned so much from each of them; most of whom I’d be happy to meet with again, now that I have their real-world contact information. Mutual trust with others around you, and those living afar, help improve your pro-White network and potential for finding a match. Don’t get so stuck on the Internet that you forget there’s a whole world of people out there, including those of us in the pro-White cause. Make the best of this WhiteDate community, while we still can!

[Administrator]

@Hunter – Why do you recommend other websites instead of using the WD functionalities? Why don’t you advocate for “viral action” on behalf of WD? This is not supportive but rather disloyal. Wecan only recommend this safe pro-white space we are aiming to develop. We cannot recommend outside platforms. So please don’t.

[Hunter]

“If you can’t call someone on the phone.”

I agree. Yet online communities are a start, since you can ensure that you share some key values with the people you are connecting with… of course, there is always the possibility some of them would be hostile actors (e.g. regime agents) but the same is true IRL. I recommend everyone so inclined join the the relevant …… chat groups, and invite all those you feel might be interested. Let’s go for some ‘viral’ action!

If you’re a guy, join (other website that we do not know nor recommend – Admin)
If you’re a gal, join (other website that we do not know nor recommend – Admin)

[Filemazio]

Nevertheless, online virtual communities are very useful to make a start with like-minded people, shortening the time needed to find someone who accepts certain values we need to share. Of course, you can’t say you “know” anyone until you met him/her in person at least three times, but you could still enjoy some time chatting with someone who tells you interesting things – or funny jokes, rather than passively watching shows on TV all the evening.
Social engines like this could also be used to find good people around you, i.e. in your region/nation. Then, you could build a local community or even just a small pizza group, sharing gratitude for the same spring which all the company came from.
I did it before, it was pretty fun. And the same mechanisms were going on during the glorious era of CB radios, before Internet even existed: hear a voice far away among many others, talk to her all the night, meet her that same weekend, stay in touch happily ever after. Rare lucky chances, but not too rare to be honest.
IMO it’s important to talk on voice some time, not just texting, before meeting someone in person: the voice says – literally – a lot more!

[Filemazio]

Nevertheless, online virtual communities are very useful to make a start with like-minded people, shortening the time needed to find someone who accepts certain values we need to share. Of course, you can’tsay you “know” someone until you at least met him/her in person three times, but you could still enjoy some time chatting with someone who tells you interesting things – or funny jokes, rather than passively watching shows on TV all the evening.
Social engines like this one could also be used to find good people around you or at least in your region/nation. Then, you could build a local community or even just a small pizza group, sharing the same spring which all the company came from.
I did it before, it was pretty fun. And the same was gping on during the glorious era of CB radios, before Internet even existed: hear a voice far away among many others, talk to her all the night, meet her that same weekend, stay in touch happily ever after. Rare lucky chances, but not too rare to be honest.
IMO it’s important to talk on voice some time, not just texting, before meeting someone in person: the voice says – literally – a lot more!

[Anonymous]

Exactly. I agree. And especially now, with the coronahysteria, when people move away from me while jogging in the park as if we were spreading leprosy, I wouldn’t demonize online contact at all because if your relatives and friends live in a different city or country, there’s often not much one can do.
And some countries don’t let tourists in at all. So if you want to visit friends or have them visit you, you just can’t.

One of my sisters-in-law wanted to visit her family in Russia but she was denied a Visa for her children because the authorities told her that her children aren’t closely related enough to her sister (their aunt) so are not eligible for this family Visa or whatever it is called.

Trust me, I would do a lot to meet people in person but how on Earth am I supposed to meet them IRL?
The only human interaction with strangers I get is when their dogs come up to me and I ask if I can pet them. Usually a conversation develops but they still stay away.

[WhiteMan]

From my view, I like to talk and ask a lot of indirect, very indirect questions, never hard point details, about their thinking. In LA here, with 10 million on crowded streets, making an in-person meet takes much time and planning. It is different in a small college town in say Eugene, Oregon, when a meet at a coffee shop can be affected rather quickly. Fighting through a massive city introduces other time dynamics than a small town or calm moderately sized city.

[WhiteMan]

Well with all the live phone telemarking going on, at least here in LA, we all just text, we rarely use a vocal phone. I wish we could call here, but when we do it is rare.

[GreatDane]

Well said.

[Anonymous]

As the thread title suggests, nothing can be built online. A virtual community is a dream – it isn’t real. It’s like living a life of perpetual pen pals whom you never meet while having no friends at all you can get together with at a moment’s notice. These forums (my own on here included) should serve as a temporary point to meet like minds and then graduate to real world interaction.

You can waste a tremendous amount of time writing back and forth with someone and then when real world meeting arrangements are made, there is no friendship chemistry at all. A lot is lost over the internet. Get the real world thing over with asap and then move forward if it seems right to you.

Find the one or two individuals you can work with offline and concentrate on that. Steve Jobs offered a guideline about working with others and building on an idea: keep it to the number where you could comfortably share a pizza over.

[Author]

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