[Val]

I am having a lot of trouble finding a likeminded male partner on the internet. Also, can’t seem to find one in real life either, as I have only met one other WN here in the state I reside.

[Anonymous]

Bear in mind that some girls you meet in university aren’t really corporate or academic material. Just because they are there doesn’t necessarily mean they want to be a corporate cog. They don’t know why they are there other than they were told they needed to go to get a degree to make a decent living. Heck, that goes for a lot of the guys too.

[Nic]

I appreciate all the advice given. I will say I have been trying to put myself out there more. I am going to university right now so I’ve joined the fencing and astronomy clubs here at school and try to talk to others in class. It feels as though every girl here that has any sort of potential is taken, and of course I would prefer someone that isn’t interested in career building anyways. Church would be a good place to look for me, maybe join a youth group or something. I do agree that politics should be a minute point. I believe getting along with one another and having similar goals is the most important, but it is kind of broad.

[Anonymous]

Politics shouldn’t be the sole factor in your search for a spouse. Yes, it is ideal to find a woman who tends to vote the same way you do, but you are never going to find anyone who agrees with you 100% on everything; not that you should want such a woman anyways. You need to figure out what you find most important in a woman. So long as you agree on the stuff you both find to be most important, everything else is negotiable; and you should be able to count the stuff you find “most important” on two hands.

For example, short of being okay with your politics, which would be required for a stable relationship anyway, a woman should want and seek to be a mother, wife, and homemaker more than anything else. Even if the circumstances of modern life force her to work outside the home to make a living, her heart should be focused on pursuing those three occupations. She values that line of work more than any office job the world might offer her because that’s the central reason for her existence. That’s what everything else in her life revolves around. For me, that is undoubtedly the most important of the most important. Without that, everything else pointless.

[Anonymous]

I would say online is better if you’re looking for a girl with the same politics. Gaming culture tends to be free of lefty nonsense from my experience. I play VR chat and I’m able to meet a lot of people and there are a lot of girls on that game. What’s most important to you? Is it finding someone who thinks just like you or is the survival of the white race important? I’d say finding someone who may not think like you but doesn’t mind your beliefs is okay. Having more children is what matters. Finding a partner is for that purpose, especially if you have blond hair and blue eyes. As long as they’re white and they like you. What I can assure you is that there is a girl out there for you. There are so many girls who just want someone to love. They pine for someone hoping one day they’ll find their knight in shining armor. It’s hard in today’s world to find someone.

[Anonymous]

I second ItsNatural. Hobbies are the way to go. Get off the Internet regularly and go find an activity that you enjoy, see if there are local groups focused around that activity. As a teenager, I was involved in [Americanized] martial arts, dog training, and historical reenactment. It’s a great way to meet people. As for vetting potential girlfriends for politics, my limited experience is follow the flow of the conversation. Don’t try to inject politics into it, but be casual and honest when the topic comes up.

Church-related activities are also a great idea if you’re a Christian, though it depends on the quality of the church.

[ItsNatural]

I think a lot of us here you, Nic. Well, I used to play hockey, like your avatar picture. I happened to come upon a local hockey group that meets up regularly. They told me they were on the ‘meet up’ site. The females there were smaller in number, but hey, that’s hockey and what do you expect. I wouldn’t consider going to a yoga class. lol! It is great to bend though, but not for things that are going to be an obvious dead end, like yoga, coffee shops, Zumba classes, etc. Maybe they’ll get red-pilled, but it ain’t worth it. At this time, I think it’s too dangerous. Now I live in a very leftist neighborhood, so most, but hopefully not all, seemed leftist. BUT, everybody was white, including the women, and beautiful, too. (I think they were with other guys there, but I could be wrong).

Yes, I think I too a cursory glance at meet up before and decided against it, but it just might be a great idea now. I hope you don’t have to login in with Big Tech or Facebook. So, activities, beliefs, or hobbies might be the best way.

P.S. Thank you for reminding me of this. 🙂

[Nic]

I hope this is the right place to ask this, but what are your opinions on how to meet new people (for a relationship). I don’t think online will work because of the highly competitive nature of it for men, but at the same time it seems the same in person as well. I’ve been in a total of zero relationships so far, so I’m willing to give new ideas a try as whatever I’m doing isn’t working.

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