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  • #24265
    Administrator
    Moderator

    Thank you for your input! We have upgraded the site and are still in the process of fixing bugs and adapting suggestions. Nevertheless, we lack the time to justify each development step and are unable to implement all of the ideas you have shared with us.

    #24123
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    For paying members, the banner saying that you need to be a paying member to send the first message, should imho not be shown.

    #23558
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    With the pagination not fixed, it is pretty difficult to do anything on this website.

    #23557
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    The “cluster” page could use an automatic refresh. Instead of pre-selecting a ton of matches from the database, based on distance, one could imagine that only a few records would be fetched, depending on the current viewport. So if you scroll the map, a new search will be issued, fetching only a small part of the data.

    #23556
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    It would be nice if the pin on the map would match the location in the profile. Eg. I find someone who has a pin in London, UK, but in the profile, it says “Boston, Massachusetts, US”. I don’t think that this is a good idea. If anything, one could implement a switch where either the profile location or the pin location would be displayed, as an option for the user.

    #23465
    Sigma
    Participant

    This site needs to do a video chat or two picture verification with the women to make sure they aren’t catfish. I’ve ran into 3 catfish on here. The catfish see this site as their safe haven.

    Shall I expose who the catfish profiles are?!

    #23440
    Hunter
    Participant

    In the forums, I can’t see any page past #1. I click #2 or #X and I still get page #1 (on both Brave and Firefox). Please fix this.

    #23427
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    Possible enhancement: Make the map viewport in the “Clusters” page resizable. It is imho very small, and it is of fixed size.

    #23426
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    Bug report: I just wanted to look at “Durban” and thought of Durban in South Africa, but it did not appear in the list – only some places in France showed up.

    #23397
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    A sorting function would be nice. Eg. in the “Forums Archive”, it would be great to be able to sort by age or message count, because many forums appear to be abandoned, and they are currently alphabetically sorted.

    Some forums are public, which I find quite risky. I’d prefer if all fora were private.

    #23393
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    Hi, here are a few suggestions

    * GA -> Matomo (www.matomo.org), allows for self-hosting and helps with GDPR problems
    * Find other Captcha software that doesn’t call out to Google?
    * See whether Cloudflare could be eliminated, due to tracking
    * Make it easier to see sent and received Likes, eg. via menu entry

    #23248
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    Fix pagination. I can click on any page number, but always arrive on the first page of any forum.

    #23247
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    Add a button for “networking”, so I can send a message to another man for networking without incurring the taint of possibly being gay (I’m straight, anyway).

    #23245
    deckenfarbe
    Participant

    1. Make the ‘Clusters’ page work with OpenStreetmap instead of Google Maps, if possible.
    2. Make the map area resizable.
    3. I find a lot of profiles where it says something like “living in far-away land”, while the map says it’s near me. Maybe this can somehow be reconciled?

    #23143
    Wakstar
    Participant

    Live chat function for paid members. Like a Friday/Saturday night live stream. That would be fun.

    #23024
    Hunter
    Participant

    Anyway, I will reiterate, that if Liv—the site owner—wants this site to be a success, she should work on recruiting Ukrainian women, especially since she lives in Europe. Before the war, I had considered doing this myself.

    #23023
    Hunter
    Participant

    My inbox has received a massive amount of ‘introduction letters’ to women from the staff on that site. To open the letters costs at least 6$ USD each. In an era with instant digital communications, and good instant machine translation, that is outrageous. I can’t help but think I’m being scammed. What is interesting to me, are the in-person dating tours.

    #22989
    Hunter
    Participant

    I checked out this site in more depth and discovered that they charge $10 USD to send an email/letter to a woman. That is hella expensive. Especially, since in my experience at least 90% of women don’t even bother replying at all.

    #22896
    Hunter
    Participant

    Maybe the website should additionally focus on recruiting (ideally young) Ukrainian women (e.g. https://loveme.com/women/ukraine/ukraine-women.htm), they have the most incentive to travel internationally for marriage and are often attractive. Being pro-White is also likely not a hard sell. Where the attractive women go, the men will follow.

    #22790
    Leo
    Moderator

    @felipemarc1990 A combination of both, deletions and disabling of accounts. Fake profiles are a recurring problem, but there’s probably an understandable privacy concern for WhiteDate users who remove their personal data when naturally departing the platform.

    Liv has promoted WhiteDate.net on numerous platforms, but has been removed or shutdown from the most popular, Jew-controlled platforms (such as Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube). If I remember correctly, I believe she thinks that Gab is controlled opposition, but has been uploading content onto newer platforms such as the video-sharing site Odysee.

    She (and I, to a lesser extent) have been focusing on pro-White platforms, performing interviews and promoting the WhiteDate platform in various ways, including guerilla marketing. You can do your part to help us grow, too, by growing a local network and awareness!

    I have also created a promotional flyer in the past, that promoted all-the-above … Asians, Blacks, Jews, Latinos, and Whites, all on the same flyer (with some messaging about diversity, inclusion, and dating space available to all) without being exclusively White.

    I’m sure you could similarly use your creativity and intelligence to come up with something special, to help our cause, too! But what that ends up being, is ultimately for you to decide.

    #22788
    Leo
    Moderator

    @ehdude Private message sent.

    #22760
    Dude
    Participant

    @Leo – Send me a message, would you?

    #22687
    Philip Marc
    Participant

    Why are there so many anonymous/inactive users in this thread? Did they delete their accounts or were suspended for some reason?

    It would be nice to see White Date promoted on Gab, Rumble, and the likes, but the problem is that they’d label WD a “racist” dating website. We eventually have to get over that nonsense because our people need more websites like WD.

    The way they think…
    Dating website for Asians? All good.
    Dating website for Africans? All good.
    Dating website for Jews? All good.
    Dating website for Europeans? Oh no, that’s racist.

    • This reply was modified 11 months, 1 week ago by Philip Marc.
    #22614
    Hunter
    Participant

    I hereby update my digital currency suggestion to https://www.coingecko.com/en/coins/epic-cash & https://www.coingecko.com/en/coins/pax-gold for stability. Implementing and using new effective technologies is absolutely mandatory for the pro-White community’s (digital) survival.

    #22613
    Hunter
    Participant

    Besides imitating major successful—in terms of children made and not just the number of users—dating sites as much as possible, I recommend abandoning the focus on ‘tradition.’ Instead, the site should focus on the importance of our White/European biological subspecies (race), genetics/eugenics, and (individual) liberties. The importance of subspecies and eugenics hasn’t been a sincere part of Western tradition since the edicts of Constantine establishing christianity as the official religion of the Roman Empire. The Third Reich was a short lived anomaly. The focus on subspecies and eugenics during the Third Reich was actually the major revolutionary aspect of that Reich, it was definitely not ‘traditional.’ Users after a ‘traditional’ dating experience are far more likely to join a christian dating site or ‘go to church.’ The site should aim to instead be as ‘revolutionary’ as possible while still seriously aiming for success.

    #22577
    Leo
    Moderator

    @JB Unless I am mistaken, I do believe WhiteDate users are notified of their received Likes; however, I am uncertain whether this is true for Picture Requests. I imagine that Liv the Administrator will clarify this once she notices your concerns, fella.

    #22572

    Such an obvious and great idea, yet it never crossed my mind!

    #22570
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    it would be nice if likes and picture requests appeared as notifications on the user’s profile

    #22569
    Oscar
    Participant

    I understand the notion of op-sec for the site but the systematic pre-validation of links to the site is annoying. After all, fedposting can simply be the act of writing, and in this case, moderation only intervenes a posteriori.

    why not consider certain sites already (((heavily moderated))) like Youtube as safe and only subject of usual post-moderation ?

    if it represents an impracticality, we can also imagine a status of “trusted commentator” who would be exempt from this pre-moderation and only subject to the usual a posteriori moderation regarding the links posted

    (yes I believe I belong to this category)

    and since we are at my wishlist, Liv, could you look to see the introduction on the comments space of usual writing tools (bold, underlined, italics quotes, etc)

    it would greatly improve the practicality, the visibility of the writings, and therefore the general appeal of this part of the site.

    #18638
    Hunter
    Participant

    WWI destroyed the monarchy and aristocracy that was keeping the financial class in check. Hitler later realized that the financial class elite were the primary enemy of the Aryan subspecies (and the communists et al., were their pawns). Due to historical factors, like being the only group in Europe permitted by the Catholic Church to charge interest, the elite of this elite were universally ‘Jewish.’ The result of WW2 destroyed (White) racialism, eugenics, and even nationalism as serious forces on this planet. Now, with the NWO Plandemic ‘Great Reset,’ our basic liberties are being erased. We are struggling against the existentially disastrous results of WW2. You could argue that WW2 never actually ended, and will not end until Aryans are completely destroyed or our spiritual and mortal enemies (with whom coexistence is impossible) are. This website is one step in the right direction. Embracing a more libertarian and less arbitrary moderation policy and allowing a non-paying user to initiate contact once a week might increase traffic. A profit sharing policy—perhaps using https://www.bitcoinsv.com/ or https://e.cash/—that rewards users for each paying user they recruit might also help.

    #18566
    Administrator
    Moderator

    @CSS Dixieland Thank you for your trust. Who is Alice F.? Please refrain from publishing real names in this forum, whose posts are public and searchable on the Internet by keywords. You are right; I work with Indian developers, as white developers were and still are out of my financial reach. My French accountant is also non-white and lives on a French Dom-Tom island. All the white French accountants of the two dozen I contacted refused to work with me due to the pro-white nature of the online solutions we provide. I am not a fan of “Onkel Addi” either; I believe that he was financed and instrumentalized by the banking system based on the pawning of the German people’s collateral by creating tradeable bonds with so-called “birth certificates” (legal person, strawman) since 1933. Without German generals disobeying his mad instructions, even more million flowers of the white gene pool would have perished, which seems to have been one of the main goals of WWI and II, besides the abolishment of monarchy. Just my 2 cents.

    #18565
    Oscar
    Participant

    “So many users have been censored/banned for unknown/not-publicized reasons.”

    How would you know ? I mean unless you’re here on mission “for some reason” with other guys you know IRL.

    “The seemingly arbitrary nature of site administration has not inspired confidence”

    funny all these self-claimed tough fascists who suddenly wants democracy when they don’t get their way, eh

    “and in fact, reinforces speculation that this site is a honeypot.”

    Fun fact : a very serious study of the University of Big-brained Nibbas of Wakanda has proved that 99% of internet people using the term “honeypot” about political-linked sites are themselves either ADL members or FBI glowniggers.

    WD exists for years, the site does not need your validation.

    As a former moderator of the site, I can confirm that the only people ejected from the site are:
    1) non-Europeans/non-Euro-descendants who don’t belong here
    2) political infiltrators/scam artists
    3) people who endanger the site by overstepping the bounds of the very broad freedom of expression that the site already allows.

    normally sociable people have never had any problems here, so it’s up to you to ask yourself the right questions.

    #18558
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Mister Hunter, You raise various important points that would take long to answer in detail, but let me please touch briefly some of them. One is the possibility of White Date being no more than a ‘honey pot’ for charming the naïve and capturing the gullible, be it for the purpose of collecting intelligence for enemy agencies, or of extorting money by fraudulent means, or of some other obscure intention.

    I cannot affirm with a hundred per cent certainty that it is not, but I consider that hypothesis HIGHLY improbable. There are several reasons for my assumption that White Date is perfectly legitimate.

    For one thing I know Mister Jared Taylor PERSONALLY. We do not agree on some subjects (I am a fighter for Confederate Independence and a Member of the League of the South, he feels strong sympathies for the old Confederacy without really being a Confederate Patriot himself), but I hold absolutely no doubts as to his intelligence. He promoted White Date in his American Renaissance, therefore we can feel assured that White Date certainly DESERVES praise. Mister Taylor does NOT give a false step. If he had reason to suspect some ‘fishy business’ he would NOT have promoted White Date, and very probably he would have warned against it. He is the kind of man who says exactly what he thinks, without being restrained by who may feel hurt or offended by his words.

    White Date, White Child and White Deal are activities organised by Frau Liv Heide, a German Lady of Hamburg, mother of family, and another evidence is given by her appearances in public media.

    As Mister Jared Taylor, I am not easily fooled either. I have read much of what she has written here in White Date (‘Letters from Liv’, interventions in this Forum as Administrator, et cetera) and in other places of Internet. There is an interview of one hour, in English, that she gave to North American Radio Network. I have carefully listened to her voice in that interview, and I can affirm that she is fully sincere in what she says. There are various other references to her in Internet, I have read them all. Therefore, Mister Hunter, feel safe that this is not a hidden ‘Mossad operation’ or anything of that sort. This is simply an idealistic project started by an idealistic Lady who understands, very correctly, that the best manner of ensuring the future of our Race is by facilitating parenthood.

    Obviously, parenthood begins by putting in contact prospective fathers with prospective mothers.

    The idea is EXCELLENT as few others that I have ever seen, and counts on my enthusiastic support.

    Frau Liv is a busy Lady, with a baby to care for, but she MAY reply to Your legitimate doubts herself:

    Contact Admin

    You can also contact Frau Liv Heide through her public electronic address lh AT whitedate DOT net

    The Lady cannot attend alone to all the work that is necessary for correct maintenance of a service such as White Date and its associated services of White Child and White Deal. She has requested a French accountant for her operations in France, and she has also been practically forced to hire a few Web professionals located in India for attending to THIS Web service that You are reading now.

    Recently her choice of Indian professionals has been criticised by a reader of National Vanguard:

    Bringing White Men and Women Together; Object: Matrimony

    I considered the criticism UNFAIR, and I had to write in defence of Lady Liv. These are my words published in National Vanguard, and with them, I hope that You will dissipate Your doubts about a remarkable Lady whose dream is to make possible for Aryan men and women to find each other.

    Published by CSS Dixieland in the Web document of National Vanguard, hyper linked above:

    – – – –

    Milady, please do not be too hard against Lady Liv of White Date for being practically forced to hire non-White professionals. I cannot blame her for that, I am currently living in South America and I can perfectly understand her position. In the monster city where I live there are people of every race imaginable. As much as possible I try to deal with Whites, from tasks of professional work (I am a translator, interpreter, tour guide, studio speaker and other language-related activities), to my looking for White attendants in a shop or market.
    However, it is not always possible to deal exclusively with Whites, there are times when non-Whites exist in a group or team, or when Whites are simply not available. I do not socialise with non-Whites, but I perform my professional duties as best as I know regardless of the species with which I have to deal. If I were to reject every dealing with inferior races, then my work would simply become impossible.

    Even buying in a shop or market would be impossible when every attendant is a a non-White. Every one who knows me knows also my supposedly ‘racist’ attitude, I make no secret of it, but I do not go as far as not even greeting a mud just because he is a mud. With some I do exactly that, not even a greeting. I ignore the bastard completely.
    The individual DESERVES my scorn due to his conduct or attitude, but there are others who, in spite of being repugnant mongrels, have not said or done, as far as I know, anything that could be considered reasonable ground for my permanent ostracism of them. With those I keep distance, but I do not entirely reject a greeting or some dealing.

    I do not know the exact situation or surroundings of Lady Liv, neither Your situation or surroundings. I know my own, and I believe that my position is the correct one FOR ME. I am widely seen as a ‘racist’, yes, but I never worry of what others may think, or say, or do. Only of what I believe to be correct. The ‘opinion’ of others has never been of my interest. I continue my work and I am active in various pro-White places in Internet. I fight in my own manner and doing what I can, as You and Lady Liv are also, very likely, doing. If a majority of Whites were as aware as we three are, then those despicable animals and their Masters ‘of the curved nose’ would not stand a chance of doing their dirty work of increasing the melting pot, because we Whites still are the vanguard in most of the advanced professions in the World.
    Receive a Confederate Salute, Lady Nom de Guerrre.

    Dixieland for ever !

    CSS Dixieland

    – – – –

    For finishing this contribution in praise of Lady Liv and her White Date, let me say that NOT EVERY DECISION made by Lady Liv deserves my praise. I understand the need of limiting private message only to paying Members as a way of ensuring the financial survival of the excellent service, because a Web service certainly provokes monetary expenses, and Lady Liv is not rich. However, that is very serious problem for me because I CANNOT easily send money abroad for paying my Membership.

    I am in Brazil, I have no bank account, I cannot register in services such as Pay Pal, and therefore I have no other manner of sending my payment than the old clumsy method of inserting bank notes carefully hidden in an envelope, and using the international Postal Service. It is little money, but it would be AN ENORMOUS DIFFICULTY FOR ME. The problem is not the money, it is how to send it.

    I have recently received a liking of my profile by a Lady in Brazil, Lady Galadriel of Santa Catarina (Sancta Catharina), and I cannot deny that I feel very STRONGLY the urge of contacting her. But I cannot, therefore I am sending a double request in these lines, one to the German Lady and another to the Brazilian Lady:

    Sehr geehrte Frau Liv,

    Bitte löschen Sie nicht die Adresse, die ich unten an die brasilianische Dame, Fräulein Galadriel, weitergebe, zur Verfügung stelle. Ich kann den privaten Nachrichtendienst von White Date nicht nutzen, da ich die Zahlung für meine Mitgliedschaft nicht einfach senden kann. Es tut mir leid, aber VERZÄHLEN SIE AUF MICH, dass ich White Date auf jede mir zur Verfügung stehende Weise bewerbe. Empfange einen Konföderierten-Salut, erhalten Sie einen Gruß der Konföderierten.

    Dixieland für immer !

    Distinguida Senhorita Galadriel,

    Tenho sabido que a Senhorita tem gostado do meu perfil, e nāo posso deixar de dizer que também eu tenho gostado MUITO do Seu, mas tristemente, nāo tenho como enviar messagem pessoal pelo serviço de White Date. Rogo-lhe que escreva, bem discretamente, um endereço electrónico Seu nestas linhas, ou bem melhor, que escreva ao meu endereço cssdixieland ARROBA icloud PONTO com

    Pode utilizar qualquer uma das principaes línguas Europėias, sou cultivado e poliglota. Estou ao presente morando na Cidade de Sāo Paulo. Receva uma Carinhosa Saudaçāo Confederada.

    Dixieland por Sempre !

    #18549
    Hunter
    Participant

    So many users have been censored/banned for unknown/not-publicized reasons. This is not encouraging. On the front page, or at least before anyone is asked for payment, a clear list of censorable/bannable offenses should be listed, and when a user is censored or banned, all their posts should be left, with the last post edited by an admin explaining exactly what rule was broken resulting in the censorship/ban. The seemingly arbitrary nature of site administration has not inspired confidence, and in fact, reinforces speculation that this site is a honeypot. As this site was recommended by Amren, the thought of it being a honeypot is profoundly depressing, “say it ain’t so,” and, “every-single time,” tier. I will reiterate that, ideologically, what the pro-White movement is lacking is a defense of liberty. The conflation of pro-White with strict Christian traditionalism is undermining the movement. After increasing the relative quantity, quality, and power of Whites, the next objective of the pro-White movement should be the promotion of liberty.

    #18546
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Distinguished Ladies, Gentlemen, Honourable Members of White Date,

    The letter copied below was sent few days ago to a Member of Gab who requested advice regarding suitability for marriage.

    It is given here verbatim as a sample of what CSS Dixieland believes would be of fundamental importance for attracting new Members to White Date and for keeping the existing ones, besides being in itself a service certainly helpful to those who have the perspective of marriage, and who would appreciate receiving counsel from persons who have had married experience.

    The document included below was initially intended for being sent exclusively to the attention of Administrator Lady Liv, by private letter to her address lh AT whitedate DOT net, together with an introduction longer than this one and a request for informing if this kind of advice would be appropriate, or not, to the type of service being offered by White Date.

    The letter to Lady Liv was almost finished, but in the end discarded without sending it. An attentive reading of several threads in this forum showed beyond any reasonable doubt that, first, the advice is effectively appropriate to White Date, and second, Lady Liv frequently reads suggestions made by our Illustrious Members in the Forum, and especially ideas given in this group of Web site enhancing, of which she is directly the Moderator and personally replies to various enquiries.

    Therefore, what was initially intended as a private letter to Administrator Lady Liv is now offered to all Members, with the certainty that it will be of help to many, and with the hope of fostering some constructive comments to our proposal.

    Because that is exactly our proposal: the creation of a section, which might be here in the Forum itself, where questions are asked and doubts are expressed by those who need personal advice for marriage, and where more experienced persons can answer those questions and dissipate those doubts. Not a very difficult work to do for the programming team of White Date, and it could substantially help those who need help, as well as secure periodical visits and returns to this Web service.

    CSS Dixieland is of course fully prepared for the task of providing marriage advice, to those who request marriage advice.

    It follows verbatim copy, just as an example, of the kind of advice that can be provided. As it has been mentioned in the first lines of this introduction, the letter copied below was recently sent to a Member of Gab who requested our advice.

    Members of White Date are invited to comment on the feasibility of offering marriage advice to Members of this service.

    – – – –

    First part of two (Gab does not accept the whole letter in a single part)

    Distinguished Lady Alice F.,

    Thanks for formulating this question, it offers opportunity for explaining a few points regarding personal relations that may be important, especially to those who are contemplating marriage.

    Human relations exist of very different types. It can be among professional colleagues, personnel of a corporation, members of an academic, scientific or military institution, an organisation formed for achieving a common goal, like that of a neighbourhood or a guild, for a purpose of common interest such as religious, political, cultural, recreational or whatever, and endless other types of relations.

    Some relations may have more than one type combined, and in different degrees, but it is advisable not to confuse one type with another, not to expect nor to demand more than others are prepared to give in that type of relation, and not to offer more than it should be in justice proper for the relation.

    Herr Adolf Hitler said that “It is an error to treat as equals those who are not”. If we go over board in trying to ‘help’ some one, at the very least our sincere offer may cause surprise, or our paternalistic attitude may provoke some resentment, and at the worst it may result in strong suspicion regarding our ‘second intentions’. Of course, all that depends on cultural values, social norms, and personal beliefs. It can be very different from one individual to another, from an urban to a rural environment, and according to the ethnic or racial group, the social class, the nation or region, the historical time, the age and sex of persons involved, as well as other factors, but the general rule tends to be more or less consistent inside a given setting. In sum, too much ‘friendliness’ may cause discomfort.

    Of all types of relations, that of romantic love betweeen woman and man is by far the closest, the most demanding, and also the most altruistic. It requires complete trust in the beloved half, as it is fundamented on a very strong instinct of natural origin for forming a family and thus continuing life.

    It is impossible to know a person in every detail, even if living together for many years. Surprise may appear that we did not expect. However, we gradually perceive more and more of the person as we see his reaction in various situations and his demeanour in different circumstances. As a rule it can be said that most people REALLY ARE what they appear to be. Exceptions exist of those who are in one or more aspects better or worse than they look or sound, but the general rule tends to hold true.

    You have done what appears to be a correct analysis of that ‘lady’. Various details indicate that she has swallowed in whole the feminist dogma of the ‘self-sufficient woman who does not need a man’. Yet, she is still a woman and natural instincts influence her, as to a greater or lesser degree all of us. She cannot entirely avoid reveries of intimacy with a man of her choice, nor the natural continuation of it, the longing for caring her own baby. The feminist stupidity cannot wipe out thousands of years of evolution, and deeply rooted natural instincts that every animal has inside in some manner has to be manifested. For example, she tries to supplant her instinct of frustrated mother with her caring for pets. There is nothing wrong with that, but it is an indication of her internal struggle between the instinct that she cannot suppress, and the absurdity of indoctrination to which she has submitted.

    Second part of two (Gab does not accept the whole letter in a single part)

    Worse is trying to supplant her instinct of frustrated lover and wife. She will try to rationalise that a submissive wife she cannot be, because she is ‘equal’ to any man. However, her secret longing for a masculine companion will NOT disappear, and therefore she will try to drive it along channels that in her small brain-washed head are considered more ‘acceptable for a liberated woman’. Then we may well have another case of lesbianism, nymphomania, bestialism (zoophilia), or of other perversities.

    Such a representative of the feminine sex is not recommendable to any man seriously considering a stable relationship of marriage, with the purpose of forming a family. It would not last, and it would be ridden with MANY problems for the short time of its duration. It would be a constant struggle of the ‘liberated woman’ against herself (between her instincts and her indoctrination), and as escape valve, against her husband. The man may be the most altruistic and devoted lover imaginable, but in her corrupted mind, he is guilty of having ‘enslaved’ her, and she will make him pay high price for it.

    Marriage is not for every one. Whether woman or man, there are those who prefer to devote their life to a professional vocation, a religious calling, scientific pursuit, or some other aim deemed by them as more important than forming a family. That is a personal decision, and it is entirely respectable.

    In the case of a feminist of caricature as in the example that You have offered, marriage would be a continuous struggle and daily pain for her and for the unfortunate husband. Monogamous marriage must begin by betrothal between two persons OF OPPOSITE SEX who share at least similar values, beliefs, habits and preferences. Some differences always exist, and if being complementary that is a contribution to a marital union, because one has much of what the other lacks almost completely.

    In a reciprocally well chosen couple new things are discovered by one that the other knows in detail and guides in their discovery, and that is a blessing. However, if being too opposed in fundamental aspects, life together becomes unbearable. The relationship may end even in cruel unfaithfulness.

    A responsible Gentleman should better abstain from the idea of such a ‘lady’ as a prospective wife. She may be, apparently, the most beautiful creature that the World has ever known, but it does not matter, for she will provoke trouble. It is true that for a man the attractiveness of a Lady is important part of being hit by the arrows of Cupid. And it is also true that the intelligent man will not be simply mesmerised by the arrows. He will think of the possibilities for forming a new home with her, he will consider many positive and negative aspects, and if feeling serious doubts, with pain in his heart he will NOT go ahead with a dubious project that is, in all probability, doomed to a TOTAL DISASTER.

    I have much more to say on the delicate subject of romantic love and marriage, but I do not wish to tire the reader. If having any questions, please formulate them in this thread or by private message.

    Receive, Lady Alice F., a Warm Confederate Salute.

    Dixieland for ever !

    CSS Dixieland

    • This reply was modified 1 year, 11 months ago by Administrator.
    #18412
    Alumnus
    Participant

    I thank you for you all your hard work. My suggestion is to add as an option, notifications regarding new posts in threads of interest to us. It seems to me it’d be better to make that feature part of the paid subscription benefit.

    #11840
    Administrator
    Moderator

    … nobody bothered to answer … I always bother to answer requests by members sent by in-message to admin, contact form or to my direct email lh (at) whitedate.net. What exactly are you missing concerning the Bitcoin payment?

    #11825
    GreatDane
    Participant

    I read this whole thread. Lots of suggestions that could make this site more functional.

    Anyway, I wonder if the bitcoin payment works? I asked long time ago about donation, but nobody bothered to answer. Oh well…

    I would actually like to make one last attempt, so I will follow this procedure and see what happens:

    I want to pay with Crypto by staying anonymous.
    I want to support this project with a Crypto donation.
    We accept Bitcoin. Please send the funds at the conversion rate of the day to the following address:
    3HfLF4hjM9FMmSE8C5rcbJCtpKUh8yxKXE
    !!! If you’re paying for a membership with BTC, kindly send a message via our Contact form indicating that you sent a BTC payment for membership and specifying the email address tied to your account. !!!

    #11737
    Administrator
    Moderator

    Hello, Thank you for letting us know. This is an error since the big update went live yesterday, we will work on it. I reset your membership. Next time, pls use the contact form to reach out for bugs.

    #11734
    Victor
    Participant

    Ok, this is odd, but here it goes…

    I was just trying to cancel the automatic renewal of my membership, but then I cancelled my membership altogether (I lost it completely). I believe that’s not how should work…? You should retain your membership until your subscription period expires…

    I’m writing this here because I can’t even message the Administrator since I’m not a paid member anymore…

    #11568
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    A dark theme, activity filters to sort out inactive profiles, and better distance settings. Offloading as much of the legwork of searching through profiles to powerful search features would be such a breath of fresh air. Other dating apps have weak searches or are lacking filters that really matter. I think there should be some required fields.

    #11564
    lookingaround
    Participant

    I respect that it takes a lot of time, effort and money to keep a site like this going.
    I don’t claim to “know it all”, but as a new member I have the perspective of just that, a new member.
    And the thing that strikes me is that a lot of the members is not paid, and a lot of them have been inactive for a very long time.
    So there is obviously a pattern there.
    I’m trying to brainstorm a solution for that problem, because I think that we both agree that the most important thing is to save the whites. And the more pro-white people that join together and creates families the better.
    I think your loyal paid members would still be loyal paid members even if there where a better free alternative, because there would be more active members for them to talk to as well.

    So a solution might be to give free members 3-5 free messages a week, to give a little but keeps them wanting more.
    And to make a non-verbal communication possible, for example, to be able to like another persons profile.
    To give all the woman free messages. For the more active woman, the more paying men.
    More IRL events that gathers people and that cost money would also be an alternative.
    And again, ads for pro-white causes would probably work to.

    As a side note I think the “search members” would improve if you could search for the other information that one has, like “have/like to have children”, “IQ”, and also, the option to search for more then one option in the “Marital status”.

    Take care, and keep up the good work.
    You are all doing us a great service.

    #11548
    Administrator
    Moderator

    There is no such thing as a free lunch. On any big free platform, Gab included, the user data IS the product. This is why Gab has been (negatively of course, but effectively) promoted by the mainstream media, and got substantial funding. WhiteDate was and still is ignored by the mainstream media and hidden by the Google search engine. Business angel capital, if ever offered, would only harm our independence and could not accelerate the redpilling process of Whites, especially white women, which is taking place but still needs time. Knowing about the costs to keep this website going, donations have been too rare to provide financial stability. Members who pretend to be pro-white but refuse to contribute to an auto-funded project are in my opinion not ready to be part of this group. You cannot expect other Whites to dedicate their lives and financial existence to providing a solution without making any effort yourself. It is such a disloyal and frankly ‘unwhite’ attitude that I can only understand these know-it-all-instructions as troll-work.

    #11546
    lookingaround
    Participant

    I just found this site, and I do like it, I like the initiative but I would have to say that the pro-white community isn’t all to big in this world.
    Therefor I think that the main goal should be to become the NR 1 site for all pro-white people to naturally go to when they want to find new people or a loved one.
    And that won’t happen if you have to pay to send PM.
    To get people to stay active it needs to be interesting for people.
    And the more people that joins, the bigger the movement, and that flow of people generates money.
    A simple donation option would get you far if you have enough people here, maybe some live streams from the community, some ads from someone, I know it can be hard to find people that wants to put there ads on pro-white places (but there got to be some), and with enough people, they will come.
    Get creative.

    I think sites like these are important.
    It can be hard to build a fire, but when it’s big enough, it will get a life of it’s own.

    But thank you for all the hard work you have put in to this site.
    I just think this would make it take off.

    Take care!

    #11316
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    OK, I sent an e-mail.

    #11315
    Administrator
    Moderator

    Thanks for the hint. What browser do you use? Please make sure your browser is updated to the latest version. We are right now updating the back-end of the whole WD structure for security reasons. It will not show in the front but it is a major task having kept us busy for weeks already. For more exchange about this bug please contact me either by using the contact form or by sending a message to the admin (me).

    #11288
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    When I reply to forum posts and want to hit “post,” the button with the arrow (sending to the top of the page) gets in the way (at least in the mobile version, I hardly ever log into WD on the computer) and instead of posting my reply, I get sent to the top of the page. It happens almost every time.

    In profile editing options,,in photos, there should be an option “make this photo main photo” whenever you display any of your pictures. Because now you have to manually upload another one, even if one of the already uploaded photos is already in the gallery.

    #11217
    Administrator
    Moderator

    @Jomor It seems you have vented on me on Gab already. I still cannot reproduce your pagination error. Your error might have to do with the search criteria you entered. If you enter too many criteria the database might not give any result for the simple reason that there are none. Please send me a personal message using our contact form and specify the search criteria you entered as well as the browser type and computer environment so I can understand what you mean. Also updating your browser might help.

    #11214
    Jomor
    Participant

    Obviously the bugs need to be fixed first. Pagination does not work AT ALL! Click page number two and it says no members were found. Search does not work AT ALL! My location returns zero results for a 1000 mile radius.

    This site is completely broken and unusable.

    But once core functionality is established the way to go is to get white normies involved. There should not be some rigid white nationalist ideological requirement but just any ol’ white seeking white advertisement will do.

    Make it clear to women that the quality of men here is higher than what they would find with the population-at-large.

    That’s my two dimes for now. Cheers.

    #11213
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I somehow didn’t know about the contact form.
    Thank you for telling me this.

    Yes, I know you are censored and not promoted. I advertise WN on IG and among friends.

    Would you be willing to create an IG profile BUT with very vanilla content—focusing mostly, if not only, on female users, thus advertising it as traditional, family-oriented, much less mentioning politics.

    Just pictures of trad wives with catchy captions, nothing which IG censorship team could complain about.

    I see many profiles there targeting single women who want to be trad wives, and they have many followers, active online daily. We could at least try to bring at least some of them here.

    #11212
    Administrator
    Moderator

    People contact me easily by using the general online/offline contact form. Replying to admin message only seems to be technically easy to set up but, knowing the framework a bit, I think it isn’t. I will discuss this with the development. However, right now we are ultra busy with updating the whole site by keeping all developed functions, and we only have 24h per day, so don’t hold your breath. Always remember that this is a low-budget tiny-team site, not a George Soros funded controlled opposition platform that can raise major funds, employ big Western teams and gets (((mainstream media))) coverage.

    #11211
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Can you make it possible to reply to admin’s messages for free users? ?

    #11149
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @drak
    Liv is busy, she has a family, unlike most users here, and she doesn’t have a large team of employees.
    I think we should volunteer to help a bit instead of only criticizing.

    I have been busy advertising for WD on Instagram but it’s mostly men there (no surprise) on pro-White profiles.

    “Perhaps send out an annual email to all members who have been inactive for over 3 months.
    This will bring in percentage of people back.” This is an excellent idea.


    @Faustus

    Not to be negative but have you met your Russian girlfriend in person or at least video chatted with her?
    I’m Slavonic so I know that most of these Russian and Ukrainian matchmaking agencies are scamming Western men. I’m not saying Elena’s ****** is exactly the same but many of these companies just use photos of models to put on their websites, hire translators to reply to e-mails, and then rent whoever (young women) to create a nice-looking herd on these real-life events when the men come to visit their “fiancées.”
    Most of these women are not interested in leaving Russia/Ukraine with these particular men, they have boyfriends, some are even married with children.
    Translators write messages and e-mails and the women on pictures you don’t even talk to.

    If you want an Eastern European bride, learn some basic Russian, book a one-month holiday in Odessa, talk to the women you meet and go from there.
    Russian might seem very difficult but do try.
    And the younger generations already speak at least some English.

    #11148
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @admin. Direct messaged you.

    #11147
    Administrator
    Moderator

    @drak  I am worried about your membership because you are obviously a troll trying to publicly discredit WhiteDate and direct our member’s attention to other dating sites. We are a tiny team trying to make this work, and we are busy. However, I read and think about all suggestions, and some ideas have been included on our priority list, but it’s a long list. Members who are serious in improving this site write me a personal email and do not post on our public forum a to-do-novel of which most points are non-crucial to the functioning of a low-budget, self-funded website. You also violated our terms and conditions as you added personal contact information to your profile description proving that you try to harm our financial model, the survival of this site, and my personal livelihood as an entrepreneur.

    #11143
    8bitalchemist
    Participant

    Add parental status & desired number of children to the search parameters. Those are pretty important compatibility points, & they are already present in the profile.

    #11142
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I’m worried about this site.

    Been testing and giving suggestions, bug fixes and ideas on the forum pages but there has been zero direct administration interaction at all, only interactions are from other users.

    Originally used the contact page and then sent tests messages over the past two weeks, not a single reply has been made.

    My profile had both Telegram and Instagram contact details so non paying members could use that as an alternative contact method. It was removed without my knowledge and no message letting me know it happened – which really breaks trust with members, especially when I asked about this in the forums with no answer.

    This may sound harsh but as the site is right now in its current form, even unintentionally is just like a honeypot/gatekeeper system.
    *A service is offered, but hindered to a point of being useless and discouraging people. This goes for people as well who tell you to some degree of what and how it is happening, but never offering a solution. Keeping people in a state of mental lock down and subversion.

    If nothing changes in the near future, I will be moving on and focusing time elsewhere.

    #11131
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @Faustus

    Will take a look, thanks a lot.
    Don’t worry, won’t be dragging any girl down to SA to raise a family. As soon as I have a opportunity I will be leaving. ZA is nice to visit but out of a question if you want a family.
    Be the Alpha, reminds me of the Golden One. 🙂

    #11130
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @drak
    I’m not paid so can’t send a PM. elenasmodels dot com is the site I used. There didn’t seem to be many fake profiles and the price is reasonable. Within three months I had multiple leads with girls that had long term potential. Suppress your beta tendencies in order to correctly frame the relationship.
    Maybe consider not dragging a nice girl down to SA tho…

    #11129
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Perhaps send out an annual email to all members who have been inactive for over 3 months.
    This will bring in percentage of people back.

    Also have links to help groups, for various situations ranging from counselling to financial. Need to create connections.

    #11128
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @Faustus, by all means, send the recommendations my way.

    I’m also going to start another group in the forums, mid week when I have time where people can upload everything from Culture, recipes, howto, pictures, etc.
    Will be broken down into Categories and continuously evolving and changing knowledge base.
    There will also be a link to all that info replicated to a downloadable share for a just in case the website gets wiped.

    #11127
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I’m a member on wasplove and found it similar to this site, but of slightly lower technical quality and more spammers. I used match, OKC and christian mingle for a couple years and they were pretty bad. I would suggest looking into Eastern European or Russian women; I have a Russian gf now and it is going well. She’s fully aware of my pro-white positions and also my pagan beliefs, and she likes both of them.

    I could refer you to a good site if you’re interested.

    #11124
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Lol, I kid you not. Just registered with POF.com, was doing the assessment tests and after completing the second test, I was logged out. Tried logging in again and resetting my password, but nothing. Then started the registration steps where I saw my existing email used is not registered to the site and that “South Africa” as a county is no longer an option. What are the chances >_<.
    And I use “LastPass” which saves login details for sites, so I’m not going crazy here and imagining things 🙂

    Seriously need to a make a plan to move overseas, being the butt end of the world doesn’t help.

    #11118
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Drak, don’t waste your time for mainstream dating apps or websites, there are (sorry to say that) mostly wh*res there. And ugly, fat feminazis.
    And most of these websites have 637484938 genders and sexual orientation options to choose from.

    Although a female friend told me she found interesting men on Plenty of Fish.

    #11116
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Yes, we ARE underrepresented, censored, discriminated against and demonized.

    I tried OK Cupid but got suspended twice for h4te sp33cH only because I wrote in my ad, “communists, muslims and satanists need not apply.”

    I mainly received messages from horny indians and one Asian who, in his first message, invited me to visit him in Hong Kong, and offered to pay for my ticket(s). And obviously misspelled messages from NIGERian scammers.
    No, thank you. ???

    My intelligent, handsome, healthy Aryan husband found me on WASP. Thank goodness because I was losing hope!

    #11115
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Just checked out wasp.love, rather shocked, it only has about half the members as here and a lot of the people here are also there.

    Are white specific dating site such under presented in the dating community?

    Does anyone use alternative sites besides these two?

    #11096
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Great ideas.

    Wasp Love isn’t discriminatory against non-Christians. There are many pagans there.*

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 8 months ago by Administrator.
    #11055
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    “wasp.love”?
    Just glancing over their page they seem more heavily focused on Christianity. It would alienate a lot of the other groups.
    Maybe they can support one another by possible cross searches between their databases or just get them to promote one another.

    #11053
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I would consider talking with the folks over at WASP date and combining resources. There really isn’t a point in having more than one white dating website when neither of them have been able to get off the ground successfully.

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 8 months ago by Administrator.
    #11047
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Got an idea, a suggestion or something you think will improve the website.
    Well then post it here!

    ————TOP CHANGES IN REQUEST————
    1. PAYING MEMBERS CAN INITIATE A “PRIVATE MESSAGE” AND NON-PAYING CAN REPLY TO IT AS MUCH AS THEY LIKE.
    2. ALLOW ALL MEMBERS THE ABILITY TO LIKE ANOTHER MEMBERS PROFILE (THIS ALLOWS MEMBERS TO KNOW OTHERS ARE INTERESTED IN THEM.
    3. A CONFIRMATION WHEN SOMEONE READS YOUR MESSAGE.
    4. EXPAND THE SEARCH FUNCTION FROM CURRENTLY JUST THE WEBSITE TO ALSO THE FORUMS (CURRENTLY THE WEB-PAGE AND FORUM HAVE SEPARATE SEARCHES) – THIS MIGHT CAUSE PEOPLE TO MISS OUT ON INFORMATION.

    ————OTHER CHANGES IN REQUEST————
    1. ABLE TO DELETE OR EDIT YOUR OWN POST IN OTHER GROUPS MANAGED BY OTHER PEOPLE.

    ————THIRD PARTY INTERACTIONS————
    1. COLLABORATE WITH “WASP.LOVE” – EITHER PROMOTE ONE ANOTHER, ALTERNATIVELY MEMBERS CAN CROSS PLATFORM.

    ————COSMETIC CSS————
    1. SEVERAL PAGES IN MOBILE VIEW (SMALL WINDOW), SUCH AS “Why us?” page, needs “padding-left” applied.
    2. FOOTER COLUMN / INFO IS ALIGNED LEFT, CHANGE TO CENTER.

    ————CODE ISSUES————
    1. “https://wd.easytodo.in/white-dating-site-search-members/&#8221; HAS MISSING “https://wd.easytodo.in/wp-content/themes/images/patterns/gray_pattern.gif&#8221;
    2. PAGES WITHIN GROUPS/POSTS ARE PULLING CONTENT THROUGH HTTP NOT HTTPS, ITEMS SUCH AS “whitedate-logo-europid-visi.png” AND “whitedate-logo-europid-vision.jpg”

    ————OPTIMIZATIONS————
    Website currently does load fast but if it does pickup larger traffic you will start hitting server load issues.
    There is a lot you can do speed up the site, a easy tool is “https://developers.google.com/speed/pagespeed/insights/&#8221; which will tell you what exactly is causing slowness and issues.
    *Last test I ran was the following google speed test.

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