Gut instincts and a first date

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  • #23128
    Wakstar
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    Dean_Leon

    What a great profile you have. Thank you for sharing the wisdom of your experience. That is really good advice. I too have had that very experience. The tremendous high equaled the deafening disappointment. Did the object of your affections also feel no chemistry? Have you kept in contact with her so as, to capitalize on the opportunity to network?

    I agree with you that outside forces are geared towards destroying our natural instincts going so far as to interrupt frequencies with their deliberate and poisonous radio, microwave, cell, etc…waves. There appears to be no depth they will not go to unearth and enslave our minds, bodies, and souls whilst profiting from same. I wonder if there has been any studies to observe if one race is particularly more intuitive than the other.

    The real litmus test is deciding whether I want a person to meet my family. Even if I feel a spark of curiosity, and the fact that most of my family has passed on, the most important question is if my friend would pass my families scrutiny. Chances are, no.

    Dean_Leon, I hope you find what you are looking for. Thanks for sharing such sage advice. Life’s short, the time is now.

    #23119
    Wakstar
    Participant

    Thank you Philip Marc. Sending you all the best. I’d be interested to hear how your first meeting goes.

    #23105
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    And obviously sometimes that’s not possibly right away because of long distances, even more so on here. Even still, I’m going to push for myself or the other person on here to make the trek out to meet up ASAP, within the first two months if not sooner. You just don’t know who a person really is until you can sit in the same room as them. The last girl I talked to was someone I could hold 5 hour long conversations, we could complete each other’s sentences. We put off meeting for months, and when we finally did, we just never clicked, it was awful, and quite bizarre to see play out.

    #23104
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    We’re instinctual creatures by default, among the many problems this society has put on us is slowly indoctrinating us to not listen to our guts. I won’t go into a long political essay on the subject though, the point is that you can talk to someone all day long over text, phone, etc., you’re only going to be able to make a real judgment about someone when you actually get a chance to meet them and interact with them in person. We read people through social cues and body language and most people have the natural instinct to read these things. This is why I encourage people to push for a coffee date immediately, as soon as humanly possible. It just eliminates a lot of heartbreak that could happen if you go back and forth with someone and grow attached digitally and it just isn’t working once you finally meet up for that first date, you know? And yes, that one is one I know from experience.

    #23097
    Philip Marc
    Participant

    Yeah, she lives in a different country quite a fair bit away (in Eastern Europe), so we agreed in 2025.

    She had an account here, but to show how committed she is to me, she deleted it. I was pretty surprised by that as that wasn’t necessary and she used to post comments on here.

    Anyway, hope you find a guy who loves you and has a similar ideology.

    #23089
    Wakstar
    Participant

    Wow, that is so awesome to hear Philip Marc!!! I like your approach. So, why wait so long to meet? Do you live at a distance or is your approach to have a better idea of your connection before complicating things with physical attraction?

    Wow, I am so happy to hear that this site works!!!

    #23087
    Philip Marc
    Participant

    I’ve been talking to a girl I met here a couple of months ago and it’s going really well, so when we meet in person it won’t be a first date.. it’ll be something different, something special.

    We both think so much alike it’s kind of unreal, but it sure is (as evidence we both recorded videos of ourselves, sent photos, and audio recordings) and we’ll meet in 2025.

    No exaggeration, I think of her and she does of me. I’d say she’s the one for me.

    #23083
    Wakstar
    Participant

    Good morning Leo,

    Yes, I was attentive to all that is important within our interaction. What I did not share was that he was determined to learn exactly where I live. In part, that can be explained by the “small town” mentality; however, his persistence and lack of awareness towards natural boundaries was astonishing. Hence, the feeling like he’s looking for his “retirement package.” It’s a strange world out there, one very different from which I grew up in. I grew up in a very traditional world where men led, some poorly whereas some excelled. I need a man to share’s our worldview. Family is everything to me. There is a lot I can compromise on, but worldview is not one of them.

    As always, I look forward to your kind and wise words. Hope you have a great day.

    🙂 Wåkstår

    #23077
    Leo
    Moderator

    Thanks for sharing that story about your recent dating adventure(s), @Wakstar. I imagine you were attentive to all that’s important to you throughout the interaction and communication(s) you had with this gentleman, and your gut instinct is probably for the best. I didn’t necessarily notice any deal-breakers and/or red flags about him, but if you didn’t feel he’s the one for you, then I’d suggest moving along and trying for the next possibility (I agree, it’s also nice you’re reminded how you’re attractive to the opposite sex, and that you could connect with some others whilst you were out there, too). I don’t know that we can expect every potential match to be aware of the Jewish problem; I myself had to educate a former girlfriend about it, and, in the end, she was extremely thankful for my perseverance in helping her become aware of that (and so much else) – and we had a very healthy relationship, that I only ended because of racial differences when I learned about White genocide. But keep in mind that it’s unlikely most of us will find everything that we want of a partner. Just like our ancestors, we have to settle for someone realistically available to us, living within a reasonable distance and sharing this time on Earth together, exercising flexibility and compromise.

    Even if someone matches your race but not your worldview, and you share great chemistry and circumstances – that’s still a win.

    #22907
    AeonKnight
    Participant

    @Wakstar

    “Women do not want a man that can cheat, but will not. That’s absurd! What a Hollywood Christian Bolshevik Communist construct!”

    Nope, just biology. Women need social proof. Are women generally attracted to a man nobody wants, or one every woman does? Please.

    “Women want/need a leader.”

    Not mutually exclusive.

    “A secure man does not need excess female attention. Thinking otherwise means you drank the cool aid.”

    The attention a person draws isn’t dictated by themselves. You can’t choose to be physically attractive or not. The real cool-aid is gynocentrism, which is what is actually pushed by the Bolsheviks you previously mentioned, and part of that is naming any normal male behaviour that doesn’t 100% serve women’s interests as “insecure”. Our dynamics are based on compromising with each other’s reproductive strategies, like every other animal. The notion a perfect/better man is “more like a woman” is the true psy-op.

    “Men who have primarily women friends clearly are not shy, nor need to build confidence. No, that is exactly the opposite signal. It is a bright red flag of insecurity and narcissism.”

    That really doesn’t follow. Again with the Marxist newspeak.

    “A man who has spent his life being selfish, perceiving a committed relationship and children to be of value only for his comfort in old age, does not contribute value to our community or to any other. Childless men are children, not having advanced through normal and wholistic life stages.”

    I agree, but it’s even more so for women, given that the contribution for their people can begin at 18, while men need to earn their worth. Men must create their value, women must preserve it, and for men it necessitates going out into the world.

    I generally agree with the rest.

    Take care!

    #22901
    Wakstar
    Participant

    Gentleman,

    Thanks for your criticism on a forum that, as the title implies, is by design constructed to facilitate feminine conversations. Let’s dispel some apparently commonly held misnomers. Women do not want a man that can cheat, but will not. That’s absurd! What a Hollywood Christian Bolshevik Communist construct! Women want/need a leader. A secure man does not need excess female attention. Thinking otherwise means you drank the cool aid. Women need a strong man to provide containment so they can allow their femininity to unfold and blossom. However, this cannot happen in isolation. Men need to bond with other men and women need to bond with other women, and as a whole they can interact with strict boundaries. Nature rules.

    Approaching a man does not feel feminine. It feels aggressive, but you are right @hunter, there are men who are tragically shy. Men who have primarily women friends clearly are not shy, nor need to build confidence. No, that is exactly the opposite signal. It is a bright red flag of insecurity and narcissism. A man who has spent his life being selfish, perceiving a committed relationship and children to be of value only for his comfort in old age, does not contribute value to our community or to any other. Childless men are children, not having advanced through normal and wholistic life stages. The same is true about a woman without children; the cycle of life is not complete without having your own family. At this life stage, I would rather be with a man that has made investments for the future, even if he was coming from a misguided place and unsuccessful in his pursuits. That’s honest.

    Fate, @Hunter may be lost upon you, but it is not lost upon me. Your childish dig about my age reveals everything any potential mate needs to know about you. As a younger lady, I would not have found that attractive neither. Usually someone that is that dedicated to youth will not learn how beautiful womanhood is throughout the lifespan and learn to show some respect, for themselves and others. How will you fare at my age?

    Pop psychology was designed to enslave you and destroy our race, my friends.

    Believe it or not @Hunter, populism was the norm throughout history. I use the term “racist” in a joking manner. Putting your family and your community first is the exact opposite of racism. The days of “roasting” oneself and everyone else seems long over. Where have they gone? You are right, they have conformed. They have been prevented. They are not closet porn users anymore.

    Regards

    #22898
    AeonKnight
    Participant

    @Hunter

    “he’s got a lot of women friends, not cool.”
    “he’s never been married nor had children, not cool.”
    These statements are fundamentally contradictory.

    Exactly. Women want a man that could cheat but doesn’t, not a man that CAN’T cheat. Same goes for male virginity. Social proof and pre-selection is everything. Pay attention to what women do, not to what they say.

    #22895
    Hunter
    Participant

    So, not being wise about the jews should be enough for a woman on this site to instead choose a man from this site that is at least aware of the fact that the Axis was the lesser evil during WW2… since at this point, it is extremely obvious. “Conversation in person mimicked out interactions virtually; an explosion and fury then crashed and burned.” The latter part is normal, men put in a lot of effort initially and then often burnout, or run out of things to say. That said, it seems you made the first move with the prompting of your friend, good for you. More women need to make the first move. There are good shy guys out there that simply have had too much rejection in their lives. Also, if a woman likes the man she’ll contribute to carrying the conversation.

    “he’s got a lot of women friends, not cool.”
    “he’s never been married nor had children, not cool.”
    These statements are fundamentally contradictory. For a man to build confidence he needs success with women. Confidence attracts attractive women that are wife material. Typically, a man needs to get to know a lot of women before being able to attract a good wife. Also, normally, signalling that one has other female attention will increase attraction. Of course, merely by being here you are not a normal woman but a superior woman (at least with respect to your biological (race) awareness. That you would be more attracted to a man that has been married or had children in the past does however conform to the rule that a man is more attractive if he has been the key to an attractive woman’s lock in the past.

    “he said that he wishes he would have had children but more as a retirement plan, not cool. I’m thinking he’s looking for a woman to be his retirement plan as well”
    Sounds like a cynical man, honest about unattractive things as well.

    “he asked me out but didn’t pay for my drink… way, not cool.”
    Ah, this one can be explained by feminism. But yes, asking someone out and then not paying their way (unless you agree before hand that it’s pay as you go) is not cool.

    “Where o’ where are all the racists that I grew up with?”
    In case you are serious, it sounds like they ‘grew up’ meaning, they conformed to ‘normal’ society. My brothers are an example of this, they were all fine with ‘racist jokes’ until they ‘grew up’ and in the case of one brother, he married an ugly Mexican divorcee from his jew-cult-for-goys out of desperation for sex.

    ” lol IDK but FATE is on my side.”
    No, no it isn’t, unless you marry one of your sons lol. You are not getting any younger.

    #22891
    Wakstar
    Participant

    After years and much prompting, I finally went on a date. I seen this gentleman in an acquaintance’s business, so after a long internal debate, I mustered up the strength to inquire. Well, a flurry of activity ensured, which I was not prepared for, but numbers where exchanged. My girlfriend was overjoyed to become a “match maker.” I was expecting that she didn’t know who he was and the issue would be buried. That was not the case, now the pressure was on. So, I mustered up the strength and took the initiative to text and then engaged in a spirited electronic exchange. At first, I was delighted to hear he wasn’t a typical debased pig. One topic seemed to lend itself seamlessly into another. Surprisingly, we covered a lot of territory in a very short time and even touched on some deep political topics. He sent me a link to someone who he admires and follows. I didn’t know the fella he was speaking so highly of, so I “googled” him. Turns out, the guy was a “White” Jew married to a non-white posing as an intellectual. Can you say, disappointment? Now don’t get me wrong. It wasn’t as if I was walking on cloud nine, but that momentum crashed and burned with one name drop. Now I’m not a coward but I did try to be somewhat diplomatic at that point. I asked this guy if he thought the guy that he worships is a Jew, but it didn’t really sink in. Well, buddy kept messaging and asked me out repeatedly. I needed to think about whether I wanted to at that point, so I stalled. On one hand, maybe this guy is willfully ignorant. On the other, maybe he’s just that dumb. All that I knew was that it probably wasn’t going to work out but the opportunity existed for me to go out like a normal human being and attempt to be social. If for nothing else, just to force myself to go out and interact. So, I mustered up some more courage and agreed to go out for a drink. According to him, he doesn’t drink but ended up inviting me to a local watering hole which I’ve never been to. I usually go to work and come home and do what little shopping I have to and hide in the bush as much as possible. This was a big leap for me. Turns out, everyone knew him, including the waitress by name. Conversation in person mimicked out interactions virtually; an explosion and fury then crashed and burned. It was surprising how much we had in common, really. Except for our interruption of history and who is the corrupting force in the world. After some awkwardness, he had to use the facilities then he “had to go.” I’m thinking, where do you have to go at eight o’clock at night, but obviously he had to go. I did bump into a lady friend I haven’t seen for some time, so it wasn’t a total waste. I felt like I got more attention from another patron than I did with my date, which was telling. Also, I wasn’t too impressed with how many times my date talked about his friends that were women.
    So, in summation:
    – he’s got a lot of women “friends,” not cool.
    – he’s never been married nor had children, not cool.
    – he said that he wishes he would have had children but more as a retirement plan, not cool. (I’m thinking he’s looking for a woman to be his retirement plan as well)
    – he asked me out but didn’t pay for my drink…..way, not cool.

    On the positive, I did force myself out of my comfort zone. I realized that I am still attractive to the opposite sex. I am also happy that I will not settle. Will there be a second date? NO!

    Where or where are all the racists that I grew up with? lol IDK but FATE is on my side.

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