Would you date him?

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  • #22856
    Hunter
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    “Plenty of fish in the sea…” not really, no. For-example, I would like at least some of my children to look like my mother in her youth, that is, an attractive Aryan with blue-eyes and red-hair. That requires me to find and completely seduce a young-enough genetically healthy Aryan female with red-hair and blue-eyes. Very, very challenging. Women have it far easier if they just act proactively. The chances of being rejected as a female are at most 1% of the chances of being rejected as a male. A White woman does not even have to consider reproducing with a non-White man. If she thinks otherwise it is do to external conditioning (lies).

    #22732
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Keep looking, plenty of fish in the sea so to speak. Good luck.

    #22690
    Wakstar
    Participant

    I agree. Her children would not know who they are and their children will not know who they are. She will not have the necessary community to raise her children and she will end up miserable, alone, and discarded by the treadmill of modern life. I’m pretty sure that’s what “they” want; people without a history and without a future.

    #18707
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Before we turn dodos

    Correct, Mister Dude. You have understood in essence most of my Doctrine regarding this subject. As You have perceived I use language (not only English, also the other languages that I speak) in the sense of being RACIALLY AWAKE. I reserve the term ‘Conscience’ more in regard to ethical or moral values, although undoubtedly there is also an ethical or moral code involved in being conscious of one’s own racial identity.

    The only point that seems to have been slightly misunderstood is near the end of the first of Your valuable replies, when You imply (in a different wording) that I am trying to: “…divorce the religion of a person from his set of values”.

    Nothing farther from my true intention, and I beg Your pardon for not having expressed myself correctly in the exposition of my own Doctrine. For the person who sincerely believes in a religious Faith, it is clear that his set of values and norms of conduct are largely guided by that religion. There may be (and frequently are, for good or for evil) some other elements taken from his own internal thinking, or from the environment where he lives. In most people much more of the latter milieu influence than of the former elucubrative reflexions, but a separation of religious beliefs from behavioural patterns is neither possible nor desirable.

    For the person firmly devouted to a religion, his religion IS his guide of conduct. His religion is his consolation in the times of trouble, difficulties, injustices, or predicaments of various sorts, that we all have to confront at some points in our lives. And it is also the answer, the guide and counsel, to the correct manner of facing those tribulations.

    The two cannot really be separated, religion and conduct, or faith and values. There is no dichotomy between them, and it is not my intention to ‘convince’ any person for divorcing one from the other. I only wanted to make clear that not every person fundaments his conduct on externally acquired religious values and norms. There is also, at least in a minority, an internally generated set of Principles, obtained by careful consideration of what is of natural justice or it is not.

    In other words I am affirming that, although religion is important to many people, and they have their right to preserving their Faith, religion is not always necessary for living a Noble Existence. Herr Karl Jaspers once said that (translated) “Religion is for many, Philosophy is only for a few”. My personal Philosophy fulfills my existence and guides me in life.

    I do not claim that others ‘have to accept’ my Doctrine, it is not a proselitist credo that has to be imposed on others. I am only saying that it is valid FOR ME, as Herre Soren Kierkegaard would have said. For others, other beliefs are valid.

    I consider the problem of RACIAL SURVIVAL as much more serious than personal beliefs of a religious or philosophical kind.

    Not ‘more important’, because beliefs are certainly important to those who hold them, but I imagine that the Illustrious Members of White Date will agree with me that at the present conjuncture in History, in which the White Race is now facing nothing less than EXTINCTION, tackling the problem of our racial survival is a priority much more pressing than discussing personal beliefs. Our deep convictions will not disappear just because we keep them well guarded inside each of us, and we plunge head-on into the turbulent waters of the modern World, endeavouring to swim for survival or to die in the effort.

    We have to SAVE OUR RACE, first and foremost. Religion and Philosophy continue having their place, but we ought to avoid never-ending Byzantine discussions, when we already have the Turks at the gates of the city and preparing a final assault.

    If we do nothing but quarrelling amongst ourselves, then the Turks will conquer our last bastion, meaning that our White Race will be in a situation, sooner or later, not very far from the current situation of the dodo of Mauritius Island. And I imagine that our Honourable Members know what happened to the dodo. It is still time to awake and to react for our life.

    Before we turn dodos…

    Dixieland for ever !

    CSS Dixieland

    #18695
    Dude
    Participant

    As a complimentary thought – it was events like those that have and are occurring in South Africa that have lead me to being ‘racially aware’. (borrowing your language and terminology)

    #18694
    Dude
    Participant

    Mister CSSdixieland,

    I guess I should amend my original statement. The value set that forms my faith system inherently supports preservation of my own heritage. So, I would suggest that the separation of religion from my ‘racial consciousness’ would undermine my ‘racial consciousness’.

    Also, the Boer farmer may live out his faith without going to Church. The later does not demand the former. The meek with remain, but that does not imply being weak. Rather, knowing when to fight and when not to. Knowing how to run the race so as to win.

    I understand what you are saying. It also feels like you are trying to place a moat between racial awareness and one’s religion (whatever that might be) – that one needs to be set aside for the other. I don’t know if you can or should divorce a person’s religion from their value set.

    Moreover to clarify, please don’t think that I am requiring others to fight for my values. Though neither am I hiding my values.

    #18682
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Mister Dude, with all respects, Sir: The Christian Faith is NOT under serious threat of extinction. The White Race IS. Certainly there is persecution of Christians in some Muslim countries, and regimes such as that of North Korea, who do not tolerate ANY religion or ANY doctrine except their rabid Marxism. However, on a global scale Christians as such are NOT in danger, but Whites ARE in grave peril, and not only in Rhodesia or South Africa, but increasingly so in other nations too.

    For a devout Christian his religion is first, and that is understandable. It is his personal choice and deserves respect. However, for those of us who are NOT Christian, it stands to reason that Christianity can never be the cause for which we fight. You will permit us to abstain from championing Your religion. You are entitled to keep Your Faith but do not expect others to fight for it. We have work to do preserving OUR RACE for a tomorrow that looks rather gloomy for us. It is NOT our purpose to promote church-going. Neither to criticise it. Every one is free to do as he wants while respecting others.

    We simply keep a healthy distance from matters Christian. That is all. We respect Christians and DEMAND to be respected by them. Sir, please understand that we are facing a RACIAL WAR, not a religious war. Of course You are also racially aware, or You would not be a Member of White Date. Racial consciousness is our common bond. Religious Faith is important too, for those who believe in that Faith. Not for others. You are invited to speak about Your Faith if You wish, and to promote it.

    Religion is not discouraged, let alone ‘forbidden’. However, You will permit others to abstain from sharing Your Faith.

    “Live and let live”, is an old Scotch adage. Live Your Faith, and let live those who believe in other ideas, or who may even share also Your Faith, but who have other priorities. For the isolated Rhodesian or Boer farmer at serious risk of being brutally MURDERED by repugnant kaffers, it is obvious that the survival of his family and himself is a priority.

    He may be a sincere Christian, yet, his horrible circumstances dictate the necessity of quite OTHER priorities than going to church. Respect that. Respect those of us who do not see religion as the most pressing priority in our troubled lives.

    Dixieland for ever !

    CSS Dixieland

    #18672
    Dude
    Participant

    @Hunter – why do you say that one must place being pro-White ahead of their religion?

    I would argue as a Christian that to love others is to first love thyself. To love thyself is to want thine own self to exist in the future – ie, children of your own kind. This view places religion first, but put wanting one’s own kin group to exist a close second.

    I can understand your desire to put preservation first though.

    #18630
    Hunter
    Participant

    Dear thread starter, even though you are gone, I will reply for any other confused souls there may be reading this: as a fertile woman, there is nothing more important than the selection of the man (or men) that will impregnate you. Specifically, there is nothing more important than his genetics. Ask yourself the question: will the resulting children be eugenic? This means, are they likely to be of better genetic make-up than you yourself? If yes, go ahead and mate with him if you so desire (after considering the consequences of course). If the answer is NO, do not involve yourself with him any longer unless you intend to scam him (not recommended). Far to many supposedly ‘pro-White’ women put ‘Christianity’ above all else. If you are going to be pro-White, you must place this BEFORE your religion. Otherwise, you really are not pro-White, you are at best an outside sympathizer. So again, if I were a woman my answer to, “Would you date him?” Is, HELL NO. As a woman, it would be better to have sex with and get pregnant by literally any (pro-White) non-vaxd Aryan man.

    #18619
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Teens and 20-somethings might not understand the importance of strict racial/ethnic standards, being inexperienced, figuring themselves out, and prone to experimentation, rebelliousness, etc. They aren’t set in their ways like 30-something-me, in this regard.
    We definitely need a “safe space” for our young people and ourselves, but there’s no country on earth that is a safe space for us. Maybe Orania is the only settlement that isn’t afraid of saying that it is only for whites. The Amish would probably be too afraid to admit that publicly. Just googled it “However, some Amish have adopted children or different races, including of Latin and African background.”

    #18605
    A_Spartan_Speaks
    Participant

    Honestly, I can’t even comprehend why any White person would ever entertain the idea of engaging in race mixing. The very thought of it is repugnant to me. I have never been with a non-White women and I never will. White women who engage in race mixing are forever DEAD to me, no exceptions.

    #18603
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I think it can be kind of easy to drop one’s racial standards unless one becomes very racially concious and resolute about what they want, and won’t settle. Because humans will be humans, and with high exposure to people outside one’s group, people give in. That’s why a homogeneous society would be best for our preservation.

    #18577
    Cassidy
    Participant

    Even though we have colonized the Philippines, I think this is not okay to date an Asian because they will delete our eyes shape. Do you want your kids not to have eyes anymore? I suggest you to procreate with a blond blue-eyes male since they are slowly disappearing. We should keep our genes clean and pure and mostly be proud of it.

    #12913
    J
    Participant

    Hi ladies. I hope you don’t mind me contributing a little bit to this thread.

    You know that feeling you get sometimes? When you know something but don’t know it? The OP described it and how she felt ambivalent about the guy she was seeing.

    I think you should listen to that intuition. Even if it doesn’t seem to make sense all the time. I’ve seen too many coincidences with my mother to know it’s more than just a random feeling.

    #12853
    Sudoku
    Participant

    Having recently (ish) met my perfect guy and then been rejected for a half white, half asian gold-digger he met on holiday, please do not do this! She had a child with another 100% white man a few years back and the child has far more of the asian traits. Fortunately, her new man is done having children so at least there won’t be any other mixed race kids being produced. But if you have 100% white genes then guard them like jewels and don’t throw them away on someone who will tarnish them.

    “men who are not relegated to the top 5 or 10 percent”

    I think the issue here is that it shouldn’t be just the top 5-10% who possess the criteria for being a good partner. Our standards have fallen so low in modern society that we now think a man who is physically healthy, sane, reasonably intelligent, hardworking and has morals is ‘the top 5 or 10 percent’! They should just be basic requirements for a ‘normal’ guy. In fact, they should be basic requirements for anyone. I know society has corrupted things so much that remaining healthy, sane, etc in this environment is difficult, but I don’t think telling people to lower their dating standards is the answer. In fact, I don’t even think that is possible, as people like what they like. Instead we should be helping both men and women improve themselves to the point that the opposite sex find them attractive and want to run off and make babies with them!

    #10302
    skyblue
    Participant

    I say you should talk with him about it and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you respect him, but tell him why dating/marrying within your race is important to you, if that is how you feel. If marrying a white person is something that is important to you, then let him know that. It sounds like he is a quality person, even if perhaps he is not the one you want to have children with. You ask if you should “stop contact” with him, but I do not see why that would have to be necessary. Just because someone does not choose to date or marry certain people does not mean that they need to break off contact with them. You will avoid feeling guilty about the situation if you are open and upfront with him early on.

    #10292
    ItsNatural
    Participant

    @itsgood Your welcome and thanks a lot! Good luck

    #10291
    JLazlo
    Participant

    Deleting this comment. Nevermind.

    #10288
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Thanks all. I agree actually with both of you. You won’t believe how hard it is to find advice regarding marriage and race realism. This site is a great place and I truly want the white race to flourish again even if I don’t go mate with a pure white blonde Aryan myself . thanks to you both for helping me out there.

    Take care

    #10285
    ItsNatural
    Participant

    @itsgood I appreciate your asking for advice and your rejection of Judaism and Zionism. I say stay out of the full white gene pool. One thing is certain in my mind: don’t try to get a full Ayran blonde woman. I wouldn’t even think of it myself and I’m Italian, Croatian, and Slovak.

    #10283
    Oscar
    Participant

    I am half German half hispanic and light skin.

    ‘Hispanic’ is typical a bullshit category for only Murkin use.

    a catch-all category falsely associating pure European Spaniards with pure Amerindians and all the intermediate goblin options. the way you used the “Hispanic’ term as a separate entity from White makes me think that you’re one of these mestizos.

    Nobody is a Schrödinger cat : you can’t be both White and non-White. if you’re non-White, you’re not White, even if you have some European blood.

    Having 50% of European blood never transformed Hussein Obama in an European.

    BTW, jewish is not an European ethnicity too. The Murkin political glossary tends to associate as ‘fellow Whites’ many non-European ethnicities : Levantine, Armenians, Iranians, North Africans.

    It has ZERO validity outside US borders. That’s why I prefer the concept of Euro-descendants or Euro-Americans for the White population of the US. It focuses on real heritage, no on your skin tone.

    I don’t believe that White Date is a site for you. No girl really interested in her heritage will choose a non-European as mate and there is enoàugh – and sadly too many – girls who have poor or non interest in it to allow you to find someone elsewhere.

    Good luck.

    #10282
    8bitalchemist
    Participant

    No. If race matters to you, if culture matters to you, & you want white children, do not date or procreate with this man! You do not have to be cruel to him, a simple ’thanks, but no thanks’ will do. He may very well be intelligent & upstanding, but regression to the mean must be taken into consideration with regards to offspring. Plus, once the deed is done, you cannot undo racemixing, & all of your hypothetical descendants will have to deal with that for as long as humanity survives. Yes, it will take some careful screening & searching, but you can find an upstanding white man to marry.

    This man himself may be a decent person, but it is also worth noting that whites with a propensity to racemix are often the dregs of society. Odds, unfortunately, are very good that his German father was some combination of impulsive, un-conscientious, & a loser. This isn’t directly relevant to your situation, but I spent time a while back examining the hapa phenomenon, & generally speaking, offspring of white females & asian males seemed to fare better than the reverse pairing, but I still wouldn’t engage in that kind of thing myself. Anyway, forget even the purely social aspects of racemixing – think of the medical/physiological issues too. If your offspring needs *any* kind of transfusion or transplant, the odds of finding a compatible donor drop precipitously, even when it’s a blood relative! Also, keep in mind that each distinct ethnic group is a product of both cultural selection & environmental selection, so you will be seeding a majority European-adapted genome with tropical, Southeast-Asian adapted genes. Tell me, where will this person realistically survive without a potential increase in negative selective pressures on any part of the genome?

    The medical establishment may be reluctant to speak about this openly, but it is all there in the data if you are willing to dig deep enough.

    Anyway, you can use a site like this to look for someone compatible. You can also use real life contacts for recommendations, but of course the downside is that you also have to vet those people to make sure you can actually trust their judgement. Sites like OkCupid used to have a fair number of search parameters & question options you could use to screen for racially aware people, but they seem to have removed a lot of those & have become increasingly Tinder-like. Wish I had better options for you, but still think you could find someone via these means.

    #10280
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Question to all as a request for your own opinion on my situation.

    I am half German half hispanic and light skin. I do identify as white and do not know Spanish. My family on my mothers side call me the rich gringo and don’t fully take me on as Hispanic. My dad’s German side (eeek also jewish) take me on but I reject Judaism and Zionism passionately. I am left where as far as who to marry? Currently I have been in a long term relationship with a mixed girl who defines nearly all my requirements personality and physically minus the race part (light skin Hispanic mother , dark black african father). She looks very tanned and many hispanics believe her to be so as well.

    Do I just figure stay out of the full white gene pool and be good where I am or should I go seek a full on Aryan blonde princess to take and protect as wife.

    I wont get offended at all by the comments or opinions since that is exactly what I am seeking. Total utter truth. Thanks guys and gals.

    #9967
    JLazlo
    Participant

    @Committed1488 Well said! I should make this my e-mail signature.

    #9959
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    There is literally no reason whatsoever for a White woman to date outside of her race, frankly.

    Nowadays you have the option to pick a suitable White man from any part of your country (or outside of it, if needed), so that just makes no sense.
    Do better.

    #9937
    After the Rain
    Participant

    Holy God’s shit… If here we are in situation to have discuss about the potential disadvantages of race mixing, we are pretty fucked.


    @Oscar
    Hahaha wait ’till you find the messages about people admitting they have recemixed in this very forum. Hint: it’s in a couple of threads below this one.

    #9904
    Kev
    Participant

    No

    #9888
    Oscar
    Participant

    I think a particular problem for women is the issue of hypergamy

    I can just agree. Hypergamy intervenes here in two different but congruent factors:

    – first, the structure of dating sites which mechanically give this advantage to women because of a ratio which is largely favorable to them

    I guess I’m not the only one to have made this kind of observation: while I have no difficulty ‘in real life’ to seduce women, it becomes more difficult and more random on dating sites – so even that they are officially intended for this function [I say ‘officially’ because it is obvious when thinking for a second that a capitalist firm has absolutely no reason to make sure to satisfy your need immediately so that you do without of his services and that it is happening in return for your money.]

    The natural ratio (51% women, 49% men) is absolutely not respected, it therefore leads women, by an artificial phenomenon of ‘queen bee’, to overestimate what they can hope for and in return to certain men to overplay competition and maintain an artificial – and fleeting – interest for girls to whom they would have paid no attention in real life, according to the principle that ‘for lack of thrushes we eat robins’ as we said in my country.

    this unstable equilibrium can last for months by varying the configuration of the players concerned, this is how commercial sites maintain the illusion of ‘matching’

    the second factor is related to the nature of our political sensibility : women are – for many reasons including those linked to evolutionary logics – more likely to be current opinion and socially validated

    Contrary to a common error today, they are not more ‘progressive’ than men: they are on the other hand more easily tend to conform to the moral paradigm and this one is currently progressive.

    Political margins produce kind of marginality and most women don’t like that. In this political sensibility, the ratio is even more defavorable to man than it could be in these commercial dating sites.

    but mainstream women are on the other hand more easily reeducable.

    if he is convincing, intellectually articulated, a mainstream woman will tend to validate the opinions of the man she has chosen and to perceive them differently because she needs to admire the man she loves and therefore she will have to validate them

    I have always succeeded in deprogramming/re-educating (‘awakening to certain realities’ if I wanted to use a more politically correct formulation) the mainstream girls who shared my life, but never to the point of which I can say ‘perfect wifey material’ with which I will have never to argue over our life priorities or the education of my children, because we share most of our Weltanschauung.

    It is the role of a militant site like White date to make us meet these precious gems.

    Provided of course that they avoid Sturm und Drang to know if they will mate with a swarthy.

    #9884
    JLazlo
    Participant

    @Oscar Overall, I agree with you. However, I would say that as NoWhiteGuilt points out people seem to have “meme pathogens” that they struggle with. So, even if Dee is red-pilled she still has to struggle with a lifetime of indoctrination.

    I think a particular problem for women is the issue of hypergamy. Dee says, “There aren’t many men like that out there . . ” A statement like that is a hypergamous statement. For women who are willing to accept men who are not relegated to the top 5 or 10 percent they will find that the world is their oyster as far as dating opportunities.

    Women seem to make a lot of their dating choices based on what other women think. I think women are biologically very competitive with other women and the trick is to get them to realize that they do not have to be constrained by what other women view as the top men.

    Yes, we are in a bad state. But, hopefully, with some patience and compassion we can rise out of it.

    #9882
    Oscar
    Participant

    using the modern privilege to define oneself’s genre and change it several times a day depending on the mood, I took the liberty of speaking here having seen this message in the newsfeed :

    “but, let’s face it, he’s not white.

    Holy God’s shit… If here we are in situation to have discuss about the potential disadvantages of race mixing, we are pretty fucked.

    Mudsharking is THE ultimate, definitive, and irredeemable taboo.

    People can change their language, their religion but when they have produced non-White offspring, there is no bactrack possible. They’re no more one of us, whatever may be their political sensibility.

    globalists are traitors, or at least unworthy heirs, but they are still part of our people. They can change their mind and their children will probably do that, when some brutal personal reality checks will occur.

    race-mixing Whites, in the situation we are facing, are just ennemies that have to be dealt according to their status. Our current weakness comes very largely from our capacity for forgiveness, we will survive only by cutting with this small cowardice falsely erected to the rank of moral value.

    #9777
    ItsNatural
    Participant

    You’re welcome, Dee, and I’m glad to hear you didn’t mind a male perspective about it.

    #9771
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    @whiteelevated thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I completely agree with you, there are plenty of men out there. I will keep my standards high and I won’t settle. I want to find the right partner. I believe in the institution of marriage and divorce is not something I believe in or want in my future.

    @After the Rain, I know, I know, you’re totally right. The thing is, I can’t talk about this with anyone IRL.
    I don’t know where you’re from but, where I live, it’s not uncommon to see a mixed-raced couple, especially white female + black african males. a friend of mine (natural red hair, green eyes) married an african that allegedly come over with an ngo’s boat. they have 2 children now.


    @ItsNatural
    hey! I’m actually glad you replied! It’s nice to hear a male perspective on the matter. Yes, you’re absolutely right. I sent him a text and I told him that I wish him all the best but we’re not a match.
    I’m not a Christian per sè, I do believe in Christianity but not in the traditional kind of way. I mentioned that he’s a Christian because he has strong family values, we share the same religious background and he is an alpha provider kind of man.
    I want a traditional marriage and to be a stay at home mom and he was willing to do that. He’s a very sweet and caring man, I’m sure he’ll make a woman happy someday.

    #9753
    ItsNatural
    Participant

    I do feel guilty looking at this all women’s group and will delete myself from the group after a few weeks of looking at any replies. This is THE only topic that I’ve looked at on this group’s page and no other ones.

    I totally understand this, Dee, and I’m sorry you’re having to go thru this. I think you are very right to feel bothered by the fact that he is not totally white, and sad about it, too. That got me to thinking what a tragedy the race-mixing is. He has all those qualities and yet his father chose to do that. I know that’s not his fault, and we’re going to be facing that a lot, unfortunately, in the coming years. But I say not to go thru with it. That’s what I would do. (I turned down a Hispanic girl recently, very politely, and was screamed out of the house as a Nazi motherf****r. smdh). This is very important to you, as well as it should be, and there is enough race-mixing going on. Like elevated said, there are a lot of guys out there, unbelievably Christian, on this site for ya. The only thing I suggest is to try and tell him, not ghost him. But this must be hard. I definitely know that no man should ghost. That’s my suggestion. Good luck.

    #9735
    After the Rain
    Participant

    Few things are more degenerate (in a literal way) than racemixing. What is the point of being pure in your everyday life, if you corrupt your genes afterwards?
    Race is the first thing you should exclude when selecting a partner, every thing else comes second.

    Not corrupting your genes is not superficial, is the single most important thing you have to protect. Racemixing is the literal meaning of degeneracy, the metaphysical meanings (i.e. degenerate behaviours) are of secondary importance.

    his father is German and his mother is Philipino

    Typical. Most mongrels I’ve known personally are the result of a white father and a brown mother. Only for USA I’ve seen the reverse combination.

    #9724
    whiteelevated
    Participant

    There are plenty of guys out there. The men to women on this very site are 10:1. Though I am not Christian, many on this website are. There is also wasp.love where you can find more who share our common values. I know it’s difficult to sort through the men, find one who is worthy to bare you, your children and our people forward into eternity, I believe they do exist. If you go through with this, this man and your future children will live an entirely different perceptual experience from you and I believe will not be able to feel deeply into our literature, art, culture, ancestry, and history as you do. It very much does matter. Individually, you are critical to the survival of our people. I’m not going to lie, there is a lot of mental illness in the white positive sphere. This is where you will use your instinct and intuition to sort through men and find a good man, a titan among men who strides confidently across this earth as a god, one who has completely conquered himself, one who is free of the enemy’s poison and has his will focused on eternity. If we are to fail in our sacred duty, it won’t just be the white race that goes, but will lead to the end of humanity and perhaps all complex life on earth. This may sound like hyperbole, but I assure it is not. I have acquired the knowledge requisite to see what the future(s) hold and I can tell you nothing is of greater importance in this world that you become a mother to our people. I know it will be sad for you and for this man to let go, but you must. You wouldn’t have asked the question if you already didn’t feel it deeply to be true.

    #9713
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Hello ladies, I’m new here.
    I was just wondering if you could give me your thoughts about something that is bothering me quite a bit.
    I met a man IRL, he’s very nice, a Christian, a gentleman, wants to have a family and has all the qualities I’m looking for.
    Except, well, his father is German and his mother is Philipino. He is handsome in his own way but, let’s face it, he’s not white.
    This is something that is bothering me and I don’t know if I should stop all contacts with him or if I should give him a chance. There aren’t many men like that out there but at the same time, I don’t want my children to look different than my ancestors.
    Am I too superficial? What would you do?

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