How Women Can Keep The Dating Game Safe
When it comes down to going out on a date, you get beautifully dressed up, do a nice hairstyle, and plan for every possible thing that can come up in a conversation. But have you ever thought about safety measures? Being attentive and equipped is the name of the game; also, being aware of your gestures and the way you’re handling your date is important.
So follow these dating safety tips, especially during the first three dates and until you feel 100% sure about him:
• Keep Your Personal Info Personal
When you have decided to date online, you need to ensure that your personal information remains personal. While creating a profile, or during communication, never reveal anything important or private that allows you to be easily found by the other person. This includes your home address, your workplace, email-id, phone number, or any other personal data. Until you feel absolutely certain about your online date, don’t disclose any of this information.
• Tell Friends and Family
Keep at least one person in your social surroundings in the loop about the place and time of your date. Check back in after the date by sending a quick text message or email.
• Choose a Public Place
Never, ever accept being picked up and enter a car that could be locked and drive you to lonely places where you have no chance to cry for help. The first three dates should always take place in public. You need to first get a good feel for your new date before you show him confidence.
• Avoid Dates at Night
Darkness facilitates criminal actions as they are more easily hidden, especially in non-illuminated areas in a city, suburb or country side. The safest thing is to accept your first dates at least three hours before sunset.
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• Avoid Provocative Dressing
If you want to impress your date while keeping your safety in mind, highlight the upper parts of your body without revealing much skin. The basic rule is to show either shoulders, cleavage, or knees; less is more. Also, underline your femininity with soft, pastel colors, avoiding dark or aggressive ones.
• Be Aware of Your Poise
Walking lightly, sitting straight, holding up your head and just generally moving in a dignified manner shows your date confidence in setting a standard for behaving towards you. Slouching in the street and over the table makes you look like a tramp, which doesn’t invite a respectful attitude.
• Don’t Drink Alcohol
Drinking alcohol instead of coffee, tea, water or juice will not only make you lose your wits but might cloud your good judgement as well. Also, giggling tipsy at the weakest joke does not make you more attractive to a man, it rather encourages the idea of taking advantage of you.
• Avoid Cheap Or Flirty Language
Obviously, you need to avoid any use of dirty language, yet most of the communication between two people is non-verbal. It is important to keep your body language clear to secure your dating path. It’s your job to be as explicit and consistent as possible, avoiding misinterpretation, as wrong signals could result in a harmful outcome.
• Don’t Throw Yourself On Him
Don’t lean too much forward when your date talks to you. Avoid any physical contact like touching his shoulder when he makes you laugh, or brushing arms against each other when you’re walking. Stay friendly, calm, and compact to show that you are interested but not desperate. Additionnally, keep your first three dates rather short (1,5 – 2 hours max). Any worthwhile relationship evolves slowly, but most importantly, taking your time allows you to assess your dating partner’s character, which is also revealed by his communication after and in between the dates.
• Take Self-Defense Classes
As our societies are getting increasingly unsafe, women (as well as men) need to get prepared for the worst case scenario by learning self-defense techniques, preferably taught by a personal trainer or within a small group. Your pepperspray should live right next to your lipstick. Getting prepared for risky situations might one day prove to be a very useful investment.
• Apps On a Date
The online market has developed safety apps to protect you during a date. If you feel any kind of danger, you just need to push an alert button on your phone that will instantly inform designated friends or family members and send them your location.
Safety should always be kept in mind for women when dating men, as men generally are and always will be physically stronger than women. If a man really wanted to harm you, he could easily do it. Fortunately, the great majority of white men use their physical strength to protect their women, and this is what we love about them. This disclaimer page was written for the one black sheep in the herd you need to filter out, but some of the above-mentioned tips are also useful in your daily life amon non-whites as they generally help you stay away from precarious situations.
How Men Can Keep The Dating Game Safe
• Chose a Public Place
Traditional women expect men to be the leaders of the game and to initiate contact. Nevertheless, men should organize the first dates in public places to avoid situations where they could be attacked or robbed by a group of other men. Once they feel safe and comfortable with the woman, they can suggest more secluded, intimate settings.
• Do not purchase gifts.
Whenever a new contact on a dating site asks you to buy ‘birthday gifts‘ or ‘help her out‘ in a financial situation, take it as a scam and contact us immediately. We will delete and ban the user and her email address.
Below a review including more safety tips written by John Young of EuropeanAmericansUnited.
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