What You Need to Know to Find Your Dream Partner

[Anonymous]

Great post all around, Oscar.

It is important to go beyond those unrealistic standards that has been set by movies, television and pornography to actually face reality and accept that the perfect is the enemy of the good.

[Oscar]

There is something very natural about a dream partner, that we are very close to, and they to us.

Like unicorns. The concept od ‘dream partner’ is the application of mythology to romantic relationships that have been integrated into the sphere of commodification and consumerism of personal relationships.

a relationship, like a house, is built and nurtured. The concept of ‘dream partner’ is established on the false idea that it is just a matter of struggling for a time before finding the ultimate pearl, with which the symbiosis will be erected to the level of telepathic art.

‘perfection spells paralysis’ as it was coined by Churchill.

What it is really important is finding a companion with who we get along, not someone who’ll fit all the items of our predefined conceptions of physical ideal, financial/social standing, education level, behaviour and hobbies.

This contemporary quest for perfection – which is a flattering name for narcissism-through-the-other, has created a generation of single and court-term relationship.

I know, I’m one of them.

In the dozens of women who have shared my life at a moment or another, i’ve could have find at least 4 ou 5 of them who could have been a decent mother for my kids and lifelong companion for me.

But “it wasn’t the moment for settle”, “she was kind of boring”, etc.

No other generation in history was offered such possibilities in termes of mating. But like in a supermarket, ‘too much choice kills the choice’.

Let’s stick to reality to face the future challenges.

[WhiteMan]

I have found that not finding a dream partner, but settling for less than the dream, has led to nightmare relationships. There is something very natural about a dream partner, that we are very close to, and they to us. Whereas if the partner if vastly different you both then are different from one another and it can turn into a nightmare. Whites of both sexes have been so filled with self-hate that they automatically downgrade the partner they deserve, resulting in far less than dream partners, and result in nightmare relationships.

I don’t think we should be afraid of finding a Dream Partner.

We should maintain our standards, and keep looking for our Dream Partners.

• This reply was modified 5 years, 3 months ago by WhiteMan.
• This reply was modified 5 years, 3 months ago by WhiteMan.

[Hubert]

You need to find a partner that is close to your beliefs. As a man, this is easier because it is easier to find a woman that is submissive and will be more likely to change slightly in ideology for her husband. You cannot have a marriage with different fundamental beliefs. You are tied together and working against each other will be detrimental to your relationship. This is actually a bible verse, but I interpret it to be more fundamental than what it reads as. It reads as dont marry outside the faith but this needs to be looked at in context. The context is hostilities between the Christians and their neighboring religions. The reason why you would not marry someone of the different tribe is that they may betray you and your people. People with different allegiances cannot marry. Today the best way to tell their allegiance is their ideology. A conservative, capitalist atheist is a much better friend to a capitalist southern baptist than a liberal catholic. I have seen so many marriages fall apart when the family is united in marriage but separated by ideology that I think ideology is way more important than religion. I have not seen nearly as many interfaith marriages fail when they are united in ideology. Typically, the interfaith couples will be much more sympathetic to each other’s religions and try to say that they say the same things, but the same faith couples separated by ideology will overlook their ideological differences and not see their differences in faith until it is too late. Then they will realize they are separated in ideology and in faith as they see their faith as being fundamentally different.

A leftist and a rightist will never be united. Leftists hate hierarchies and rightists acknowledge their existence, usefulness, and authority. You cannot unite these two.

[TheVigil]

Apart from dreaming, what are some practical suggestions for finding this dream partner? Dreaming is all well and good but eventually one must wake up, get out of the house and start looking. Where to look? How to identify? What to say?

[Administrator]

I am glad you found true love and great you signed up for our groups section. We need members who dare to start the conversation here. I very much believe in groups because they can help us build our communities also offline. Not that it’s good for our business 🙂 but it’s good for the white cause.
I very much like your last line. May I quote it in a tweet? It is good strategy advice.

[crow]

The topic title is interesting, because it makes use of the term “dream partner”.
Huh?
Dreams are an important part of life, largely overlooked and discarded as ‘noise’.
I met my own “dream partner” through first dreaming about her, and then following through on that dream.
Follow the paper trail. Go down the rabbit-burrow. Look in unlikely places. Linger. Be patient. Be brave!

[Administrator]

What is the initial purpose of stable relationships and nuclear families? Why should especially whites strive for achieving this goal? Why have relationships become so complicated? Why bother in the first place and not just lose ourselves in eternal hedonismnihlismconsumerism?

Nature is simple: It’s either demography or death and for nature to work men and women need to rediscover their natural roles.

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