Aster

34

Woman

Man

Single

Would like to have children

I do not have children (yet)

Athens

Georgia

United States

Bachelor Degree

My profile is under construction. Who says women can’t be construction workers 😁. I will somehow construct words together here, although, to be honest, I think I mostly descend from the person who came up with the word thingamajig. That’s what it said on my 23andme report anyway. Lol

Hello!

I love being in nature–lately I’ve inadvertently become an avid birb watcher. And I’m interested in health, for body, mind, and spirit, whatever that looks like for me. It’s interesting seeing alternative health trends change and evolve over the years, and my focus is now more mental as it relates to the physical. I can also see myself as being ”crunchy” at times, and I tend to like ”natural” stuff. …If anyone knows where to find a ”natural” cellphone, let me know 😅 haha.

I almost swear to you that I can’t tell if I’m following a collective unconscious trend anymore… At least we’re moving forward, in time…

Some of my other hobbies and interests, at the time of writing this, fluctuate and come in and out of the scene, but one thing is constant: I like being silly sometimes! Help me end the generational silliness cycle. Or at least kick it up a notch 😁

I don’t have a religion, but I have introspective tendencies, and I’m always happy for personal and spiritual growth and wisdom. I do believe that that there is more in the beyond, beyond our wildest dreams maybe? It’s mainly just fun to consider, and I tend to refrain from making all-encompassing claims. I’m not quite all-knowing about these things haha. All I can reasonably say for certain is that humans are meaning-making machines. Ahm… machine-humans. Right… At least through love we can surpass our outer machinations, I hope. 😬

In the meantime, I value being life/self-affirming. I believe a lot of issues of the human condition stem from an insecure unmatured sense of self, but we’re all trying to mature over time and develop ourselves as we can. That’s just a working theory at this moment in time. Theories, theories, theories, lol.

And of course, why I’m here, I’m of Northwestern European heritage, and I’m thankful for this site. I’m petite. I rarely drink, and I don’t smoke. I’m hoping to find someone similar, someone stable with a good head on his shoulders, not to mention sweet, intelligent, and handsome 😉. I’m part sweetish myself 😉.

A monogamous relationship, that’s porn-free, is my ideal. And I would love to have a family. I’m hoping to pass down my blue eyes. And I’m hoping to find someone as self-reflective as I am. But who knows.

I also don’t discount the possibility of polygamy, but I’d much rather receive messages from single men. There has to be a single man out there for me, right?! Lol. I don’t think I’d be good at the scheduling part within poly relationships, lol. But I get it, who doesn’t want to be the sun around which satellites orbit? Ideally, I’d like to find my sun who also thinks I’m his sun, but whatever.

Also I want to share this because I was surprised to learn that women make new egg cells throughout their lives up until menopause, and menopause is greatly mediated by environment. So it’s okay for women to have children in their late 30s and 40s after all… (good news for me and maybe others!) Not that I want to wait, but it brings hope.
raypeat.com/articles/articles/menopause.shtml

(I don’t follow the Ray Peat diet. I just thought this was interesting. Hopefully I’m not spreading misinformation lol; I think the replacement of egg cells for a period of time is at least right)

One last thing, since looks help with attraction, could you send me a picture of yourself (including your face, clearly visible), or more than one picture, in your first message if you don’t have one in your profile? You can use an external file sharing link.

Sometimes it takes a bit to like someone. Women need something that triggers that spark of interest. Help a girl out, please; we need to catch feelings from… something… 🥺. I don’t want to pass up a great catch!

One last last thing, a quote, or two:

”I may not be Snow White, but I have the spirit of all the twelve dwarfs combined.” – Unknown … I mean seven dwarfs. Whoops!

”I have come here to eat gourmet chocolate and kick ass, and I’m all out of gourmet chocolate… so I think I’ll get some more sometime.” – a ”They Live” badass

You have noooo idea what kind of jokes I’m holding back right now… I must protecc