DaintyLady

54

Woman

Man

Single

Would like to have children

I do not have children (yet)

Charlottesville

Virginia

USA

College Degree

Taurus

22903

I’m here because I’m attracted to men of my own race who share my cultural background, but at this point I doubt I’ll find a partner, so I’m mainly here to contribute to the forums and make like-minded friends. I’m of European ancestry. I love babies and children. I helped raise my youngest siblings, and I’ve worked as a nanny. I’d be interested in adopting children with a partner or getting together with someone who has lost his wife and needs someone to care for his children. As for just being part of a couple indefinitely without having children, I’m not really interested in it at this time.

The couple times that I found a boyfriend in the past, it wasn’t the right match and I just wanted to go back to being single. One boyfriend wanted to reverse roles and have me support him financially. I’ve always lived in a multicultural area of the country where I’m often the minority, such as when riding public transportation. In my 20s and 30s when I really wanted to find someone, more often than not, the men who were interested in dating me were non-whites, and I just wasn’t attracted to them. Also, it was necessary for me to work long hours, so I didn’t have much time to look for someone. I used to say that if only I’d grown up in the Midwest, I would have found the right person. I’ve concluded that being born into a non-homogenous society and being obligated to work full-time, plus lots of overtime, in your 20s and 30s is why there are other women like me who never found a mate and never had children. In a way the U.S. is a multicultural slave state.