Something slow and serious

I am definitely looking for a classical traditional lifelong marriage and lots of children but I don’t like the phrase ”slow” since my preference would be to get married sooner rather than later. I don’t like this modern tendency to date for years and years, then be engaged for years. I think if both the man and the woman put a lot of work into it people can get to know each other extremely well in a matter of months. As for specific things I am looking for in a partner that would be moral virtue which hopefully goes without saying; a concern for her own health and the health of our future children (for example: taking time for exercise, and trying to avoid processed foods as much as possible, etc.); a genuine sense of gentleness, sweetness, and kindness not just for my sake but obviously that is so important for being a mother. It’s also very important to me that my wife has an intellectual side which really could just be a curiosity and a love of conversation, but I also think this would not be an issue with pretty much any woman on this website since you really have to be thoughtful and reflective to have taken the ”red pill” or to be awake in the modern world haha. But to be specific, my vision of a perfect marriage is one of absolutely constant conversation discussion and learning and growing together.(I did not select the option that I am ”looking for the mother of my children” because the way it is phrased makes it sound like I’m looking for someone to take care of children that I already have but I don’t have any children yet. It’s possible I’m reading into this too much haha)

Not sure where to mention this but just to be very clear: I have never been married or engaged and I have no children. I should also add because my work is remote I’m very much open to relocation and relocation in a different part of the world not just the USA.

I have usually thought of the meaning of my life as some kind of love and service to God but only in the last 10 years or so have I thought more exactly what that love and service should look like in this short and strange thing we call life. I have become more convinced over time that the essential feature of this project is to find the right girl and have children. In my twenties I focused on my career which I also thought of as a kind of service to God, so like I said this realization that getting married and having children as a far superior way to serve God than just through a career has only been a realization of the last 10 years or so, and in that time I have struggled to find someone who is serious enough to want to settle down, have a family, and maybe even try to homeschool. Feel free of course to ask me more about my religious perspectives on all of these things as I have done a lot of research and hard thinking on these things over the years and I love to discuss them and have conversations about them!