My, my. From the look of these titles it just seems like condescendence towards males.
The message it sends is rather clear ; “I don’t want you”. Then why be surprised if males stop calling you back after such distant and denying behavior? This looks more like a recipe on how to lose the man which shows interest in you. I for instance am a very methodical person, I only put effort in something which can provide results, and if I would perceive no serious potential towards a woman, – worse, if she tries to be distant – then I am certainly not going to waste my time with her.
From experience I know that maximum honesty works the best. Curious psychological games is probably the last thing you need in a potential couple. Sowing the contrary of what you aim for (a relationship), is not going to magically create an inverted paradox where, by rejecting a man, he’s going to run after you even more. That would only indicate a rather worrisome case of obsessional pathology in the actual male.
